Would u marry?

[XaliimoFarax]

Since this place is dead I will try to rescue it.

Will u marry someone u have no romantic feelings towards them? U respect them what they have achieved and how they are living their lives. A good example would be arranged marriages.

Me I like the idea of the challenge; getting someone to fall crazy in love with u but im more of a fulay to actually do it.

[Byootuhful]

Only odayaal ay bidaartii dishay participate in arranged marriges iyo habro sodan jir dhaafay who were sadly misguided by Destiny’s child at a younger age ayaa nin loo dhisaa, women like that act all picky and high maintenance, come 30 and they’ll settle for Cawaale caajis oo maqaaxi baasto u walaaqa.

[Twist]

Edit:

The second time I am mistaken and commented in the women section.

[Murax]

I don't believe in ppl being forced.



Case in point this one Somali girl Her senior year of HS Her family all of the sudden took her to get her hair done, brought her a dress, took her to a party at a hotel, and lo and behold they were like our daughter You will be marrying Your first cousin starting from tonight. Its already done marka congratulations and enter Your new home, bye. After about a year or two and a lot of fussing they divorced and that family had serious beef being that they are both cousins. Really unnecessary and sad. The girl was never truly gonna accept the guy cuz she felt she was compelled to do so. Maybe back home in Somalia its fine but in the West that just doesn't fly. Still though I don't think two ppl have to be 'in love' before marriage.

[Beans]

If it is someone i respect and admire? Yeah i would.In ma opinion,that is a better foundation than having a infatuation as a basis for marriage.

[Candience]

Yes, sometimes people fall in love with each other after getting married. I believe love comes after marriage.

[HELWAA]

Nothing wrong with arranged marriages as long there is no force.Many pple are very shy and can never approach the opposite sex so if someone helps you to break the ice is great.

[zingii]

The word love doesn't exist in my dictionary, that is before mariage.

[sexy-kitten]

Absolutely not. I would not marry anyone who I did not have any feelings for, or anyone who didn't turn me on! Those are the two main deal breakers.

[MizHargeysa]

Nope , i would physically feel sick if i had to marry someone who i felt nothing for. Which is why i feel so sorry for those young girls back home who are forced to marry old men revolting !!
I understand that real love should come after marriage , but you shud atleast find one another attractive otherwise how would love blossom in the marriage ? and why would you wanna have kids with some1 you don't have strong feelings for.

[zingii]

Nope , i would physically feel sick if i had to marry someone who i felt nothing for. Which is why i feel so sorry for those young girls back home who are forced to marry old men revolting !!
I understand that real love should come after marriage , but you shud atleast find one another attractive otherwise how would love blossom in the marriage ? and why would you wanna have kids with some1 you don't have strong feelings for.

so you wont feel guilty when you get # 2.

[MizHargeysa]

Nope , i would physically feel sick if i had to marry someone who i felt nothing for. Which is why i feel so sorry for those young girls back home who are forced to marry old men revolting !!
I understand that real love should come after marriage , but you shud atleast find one another attractive otherwise how would love blossom in the marriage ? and why would you wanna have kids with some1 you don't have strong feelings for.

so you wont feel guilty when you get # 2.

loool you serious ?

i think thats the main reason why so many marriages fail.. people just rush into them without thinking

[zingii]

[Nanees]

Depends on ur definition of romantic feelings, there definitely needs to be sparks...you cant count on sparks magically appearing after a nikax is signed.