if you could change someone's life

[Alchemist]

There is this somali girl who works for us, she is a maid, her mother is a maid and her father is in the refugee camps. This is the only life she has known. Walahi it had crossed my mind what if I married her, i could change much of the hardships in her life.

[Beans]

Ur intentions are good and u wanna provide for her but do u think she would be ok that u pity her?

[Cinque Mtume]

Don't marry someone out of pity, you should know better. Be a brother to her and help her with whatever she needs.

[greenday]

You dont need to marry her to change her life, if you really wanted to do this why not set them up a little business? or take her to the west with no strings attached? Mise you like the girl

[Lillaahiya]

How about you pay for her to get an education.

Mise you're actually feelin' her

[Alchemist]

Ur intentions are good and u wanna provide for her but do u think she would be ok that u pity her?

Pity is not good I know but the honest truth is her life is full of unbelievable hardships and I doubt she would mind. Not saying I will but the doubt had crossed my mind. Don't know if am strong enough but anyone who would do that would surely receive a big reward.

[Byootuhful]

You’d always have a few arrogant people who’d be like ‘’Ala wuxuu guursaday jaariiyadi’’ they see it as ceeb, I think if you marry her for the sake of Allah...so that you can elevate her hardship..I’d say go for it, nothing is more rewarding than a deed that's done for Fisibillah.

Nin wanaagsan ba tahay

[Alchemist]

Lol what's up with the

[Alchemist]

The only reason I said marry her is cause we tend to really help family or through marriage. How many of us send even $500 a month continues to a stranger. But I get the point I will try to help her inshallah.

[Lillaahiya]

Inaad iska tidhaahdo gabadhan waan caashaqay oo qof ka cunto macaan maan arag ayaa ku dhami lahaa Beenta walaga roon yahay.

[Beans]

Ur intentions are good and u wanna provide for her but do u think she would be ok that u pity her?

Pity is not good I know but the honest truth is her life is full of unbelievable hardships and I doubt she would mind. Not saying I will but the doubt had crossed my mind. Don't know if am strong enough but anyone who would do that would surely receive a big reward.

I am sure she would appreciate some help with her hardships.If i put myself in her shoes,the last thing i would want or whose help i would accept is someone who is demeaning what i do to survive and maintain a roof over my head.

On the other hand,u can always approach it from another angle without injuring her pride.

Again,kudos to ur intentions.

[greenday]

Fiiri if you marry the girl you will send her $500 and she will get a maid, what will you do marry her too

[Cali_Gaab]

If you marry, would you be able to provide more for her parents than she does? I assume that she will no longer have to work but you might find that your outlook will change once children get involved. Your last penny wont be going to her parents.

Lets assume you did marry her, what are the plans?

[Beans]

Fiiri if you marry the girl you will send her $500 and she will get a maid, what will you do marry her too

Lools Marry the other maid and continue the vicious cycle.

[Alchemist]

Fiiri if you marry the girl you will send her $500 and she will get a maid, what will you do marry her too

Lol war I'm not marrying anyone the thought just crossed my mind. I said marriage cause the whole family would support since I'm the youngest favourite son lol .. seriously we help those related to us by blood or marriage more. I will help out ok without any alter motives lol.