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So I was just thinking, you never know someone until your intimate with them, like who you want to end up with. A lot of us first generation have been influenced by the west, at the same time retaining some of out cultural identity. Real facts are almost 100% of most guys under 25 have watched porn to varying degrees, and a percentage of the younger generation woman too, no doubt. This has put a lot of what is considered deviant fantasies and sexual practices on the forefront of what intimacy consists of.

Now, even those who have managed to stay away from any kind of porn, are still subject to what is shown on t.v. shows and romantic movies, where this subject is brought up implicitly or explicitly. So, you cannot pretend that these sexual practices which most likely isn't practiced in conservative societies and considered deviant isn't in our collective consciousness. The west didn't have what is called the "sexual revolution" as just a name for nothing.

My question is, what would be your reaction to your spouse if they inclined or even demanded to some of these things. Would you look at them differently, or would just accept it as part of the age and culture we live in. And could this lead to divorce if neither side budged? We don't live in the age of our parents no more.

Inclined or even demanded some of these things? It seems to me that you've watched bizarre porn in your day. There's nothing that will make one shocked unless its anal or doing it in a public place. It looks like you have very different expectations than the average male. Unless you're speaking from a female perspective.

Let me get this straight, you're asking how I would react if my girl told me she watches porn?

Walahi that's a very interesting question that never crossed my mind. I think I would be too confused to judge.

If she asked me to do certain things which are out of the ordinary. My initial reaction would probably be Haalke ka barataay.


Cali_Gaab

Not just that, some guys in here have talked about using their Caraab, maybe he is referring to that?

What’s wrong with this guy and his sexual related threads...


Hadaa bahalka u waalatay orad naga guurso


Fak.

I see lots of scared people!

Interesting question.

Byootuhful wrote:What’s wrong with this guy and his sexual related threads...

Hadaa bahalka u waalatay orad naga guurso

According to his school of thought you can have sex outside marriage if you have good intentions.

Using the carab isn't shocking either. If she said 'lets download a porn dvd' id slap her face walee. Now watching a raunchy scene in a movie is no problem.

The only thing that would really shock me is if she asked me to dress like a famous person or something. I would not be happy.

Imagine you wife coming up to you and saying so I learned dominatrix/bdsm on so and so porn, mind if we try?

Executive, that is a stretch sxb. Where has Perfect such a thing?

^ waa iska caadi, Executive hallucinates from time to time.

Cajiib, the girl would probably play shy xita haday aduunka so dhamaysay and expect you to teach her even though she knows everything.

HELWAA wrote:Cajiib, the girl would probably play shy xita haday aduunka so dhamaysay and expect you to teach her even though she knows everything.

HELWAA wrote:Cajiib, the girl would probably play shy xita haday aduunka so dhamaysay and expect you to teach her even though she knows everything.

Helwaa did you hear about the stories of girl initiating for something and being divorced

Enlightened~Sista wrote:^ waa iska caadi, Executive hallucinates from time to time.

I thought you was ignoring me