Halaal Boyfriend

[caburiye1]

Ok guys,

After Haraam boyfriend became so rampant in the west, Sheikh Muxamad Rashaad ( AHN) Came up with Xalaal boyfriend suggestion. So many somalis disagreed but So many welcomed it as a solution to end xaraam boyfriend.

His argument was,

This kids are growing in the west with so many temptation on their shoulder. They have no strong Iimaan and culture to make them overcome it. They know about prom, they know about being virgin as a shame. They think having a boyfriend proofs the girl is attractive. The boys think dating so many girls and laying them is a proof of being cool.

His Suggested Solution.

If you see your daughter with a boy that she thinks she likes, talk to the boy or the girls parent and tie the nikaah for them. Lets say the girl is 13yrs and the boy maybe 15. Let them have two rooms. One at the boy's family house and one the girl's family house. Let them sleep sometimes in the girl's room and sometimes in the boy's room. No responsibility attached. They can use condoms if they want because using condoms is less thanbi than committing Zinah which we are trying to protect. When they are old enough, especially after high school, let them move into one of their rooms and stay their to learn to be responsible. Let them cook for each other and staff. Help them find a job and maybe they can move out if they want. You can even give them a little xaflad to mark the transition.

What do you guys think? Would you rather have your daughter sleep with her husband in your house or sleep with a boyfriend out?

[Byootuhful]

Please tell me how your brain functions?

For real..

[qoraxeey]

bad idea

if I was mother of teenager i would not allow this

[caburiye1]

bad idea

if I was mother of teenager i would not allow this

Would you want her to freak with guys or Have her enjoy while married?

[accident]

[DR-YALAXOOW]

suggestion of 13 or 15 years girl going in to nikaax whit 13 or 15 years boys is a child marriage i dont think thats solution of confronting pre marriage sex between youngesters who are grewing up in the west. t
the death sheikh rashaad aun does not know if the somali youth in west majorty of them have intercorse before marriege? actually one study showed majorty of somali boys and girls are actually virgins until they become 18 years old. after 18 that person is adult and parental responsibility becomes less. so from 13 to 17 years old somali girls and boys in west majorty of them are virgins anyway.

[caburiye1]

suggestion of 13 or 15 years girl going in to nikaax whit 13 or 15 years boys is a child marriage i dont think thats solution of confronting pre marriage sex between youngesters who are grewing up in the west. t
the death sheikh rashaad aun does not know if the somali youth in west majorty of them have intercorse before marriege? actually one study showed majorty of somali boys and girls are actually virgins until they become 18 years old. after 18 that person is adult and parental responsibility becomes less. so from 13 to 17 years old somali girls and boys in west majorty of them are virgins anyway.

Uma maleenaayo. 15-17 is when boys and girls became so interested with S*ex. Mamaqashay wax ladhoho Adolescence state? ama kacsi labood period.

[AhmedBoqor]

Ok guys,

After Haraam boyfriend became so rampant in the west, Sheikh Muxamad Rashaad ( AHN) Came up with Xalaal boyfriend suggestion. So many somalis disagreed but So many welcomed it as a solution to end xaraam boyfriend.

His argument was,

This kids are growing in the west with so many temptation on their shoulder. They have no strong Iimaan and culture to make them overcome it. They know about prom, they know about being virgin as a shame. They think having a boyfriend proofs the girl is attractive. The boys think dating so many girls and laying them is a proof of being cool.

His Suggested Solution.

If you see your daughter with a boy that she thinks she likes, talk to the boy or the girls parent and tie the nikaah for them. Lets say the girl is 13yrs and the boy maybe 15. Let them have two rooms. One at the boy's family house and one the girl's family house. Let them sleep sometimes in the girl's room and sometimes in the boy's room. No responsibility attached. They can use condoms if they want because using condoms is less thanbi than committing Zinah which we are trying to protect. When they are old enough, especially after high school, let them move into one of their rooms and stay their to learn to be responsible. Let them cook for each other and staff. Help them find a job and maybe they can move out if they want. You can even give them a little xaflad to mark the transition.

What do you guys think? Would you rather have your daughter sleep with her husband in your house or sleep with a boyfriend out?

Your heart is in the right place but the idea is plain stupid. Your encouraging teen sex by doing so and what if the girl ends up getting pregnant anyways before even starting high school? Let them finish school first, so at around the age of 18 or 19 and then consider this option only if you think your kids are ones that would possibly commit zina. Either way the idea of getting a boy or a girl married before the age of 15 in the society we live in today is not good news.

[afisoone]

Hadiiba la isku nikaaxay. Maxaa u diiday inee iska shaqeeyaan.

[SultanOrder]

oh man that is funny, now I understand why every generation is shocked at the next generation

[Beans]

This has to be the dumbest thing a sheikh came up with.A room at each house and no responsible? Teenage raging hormones will definitely disagree with this idea.

This idea is one step away from what the Shia practices,their short term contract marriages.

[SultanOrder]

This has to be the dumbest thing a sheikh came up with.A room at each house and no responsible? Teenage raging hormones will definitely disagree with this idea.

This idea is one step away from what the Shia practices,their short term contract marriages.

beans take it easy on the shia, if you ask a real shia, they will tell you that there are so many conditions to the short term contract that it is basically inapplicable. Sunni's had the same thing, but realized it was too hard that they just got rid of it.

[Beans]

This has to be the dumbest thing a sheikh came up with.A room at each house and no responsible? Teenage raging hormones will definitely disagree with this idea.

This idea is one step away from what the Shia practices,their short term contract marriages.

beans take it easy on the shia, if you ask a real shia, they will tell you that there are so many conditions to the short term contract that it is basically inapplicable. Sunni's had the same thing, but realized it was too hard that they just got rid of it.

Taking it easy with ma shaah

[Twist]

This has to be the dumbest thing a sheikh came up with.A room at each house and no responsible? Teenage raging hormones will definitely disagree with this idea.

This idea is one step away from what the Shia practices,their short term contract marriages.

beans take it easy on the shia, if you ask a real shia, they will tell you that there are so many conditions to the short term contract that it is basically inapplicable. Sunni's had the same thing, but realized it was too hard that they just got rid of it.

Where did you get that from? Mut'ah was practiced in the early years of Islam then the prophet (PBU) prohibited it, period!

Never heard of Muslims (Sunnis in this instance) practicing Mut'ah after that and just got rid of it because it was too hard.

[SultanOrder]

Twist how can that be when umar outlawed temporary marriage with a specified time period as part of the contract.