Divorce....

[gedo_gurl]

Almost everyone I know who had a slap dash wedding because they were after of being alone in their early/mid twenties are now newly divorced or in the process of doing so. Don't rush into marriage just because you're in your late twenties/early thirties...The ones who got married in their teens are on their second husbands/wives since ages ago! Take the time to get to know someone and have an idea of what kind of family you want to be. Good looks, initial charm, money...none of these matter in the end when they cheat, dont come home til late every night, start treating you like a doormat because they 'already have you'. Just pray to Allah and look for a decent person.

[metamorphosis]

Divorce became the new trend. Though divorce is at a new peak globally, but we're definitely on the forefront. Like you say, DON"T RUSH!

[UlteriorMotive]

I get what your saying and I generally agree. But at the same time it depends on the type of people getting married.

I noticed it always ends in tears when the shisha teenagers suddenly become ....have fun-filled honeymoon ....get a lot of this ....and

[NewHargeisaGirl]

This is why I wont get married until I'm at least 36 yrs old enchallah ! one kid will do 4 moi

[gedo_gurl]

It's because people marry for the wrong reasons these days. I certainly wont rush, many people have been left devastated because they picked the wrong person out of desperation. It actually makes me sad.

Ulterior...they think guur inuu ciyaar yahey....yaa usheego!

New Hargeisa....what makes you think he'll be there when you're 36? I didnt say 'wait'...I said have patience.

[NewHargeisaGirl]

Gedo Girl,
will answer your question in a minute but first let ask u this errmm why do people marry horta in the first place? Walaahia I am dead serious with this.. do people marry b/c of love or have Halaal sex & make them damn babies

[metamorphosis]

Newhargaisa; YOu know the later you wait the older you are the more your eggs are prone to produce deformed kids.

[NewHargeisaGirl]

^^
Personally I dont want to have more than a child or two enchallah ! Also there are many available options for us nowadayz in case you didnt know that already

[gedo_gurl]

New Hargeisa...for me its romance, and having kids within a marriage...but of course it's about religion. I dont understand why athiests get married, no wonder the divorce rates amongst gaalo is so high, its just not for them.

[metamorphosis]

like what? Are you trying to say of what I am thinking?

[KingMJ]

New Hargeisa...for me its romance, and having kids within a marriage...but of course it's about religion. I dont understand why athiests get married, no wonder the divorce rates amongst gaalo is so high, its just not for them.

Romance how so? If you mean by giving flowers and lots of gifts and all all nice things well then thats easy and is expected in the courting period but when your married it stops walaal

[NewHargeisaGirl]

Meta, which is?

[metamorphosis]

Using another carrier other than yourself.

[NewHargeisaGirl]

Using another carrier other than yourself.

Horta what does our religion say about that & also egg freezin'? is it Haram according to Islam:?

[accident]

Just do it and get on with it. If you get divorced, do it again.