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Maasha Allaah Beautiful Nikaax

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all the Muslims make the girl come to the nikaax and be part of the Islamic part of the wedding. The Somali Munaafiqiin do not let the girl come to the mosque for the nikaax but again take her to the party and strip her almost naked for hundred men to see.

Would you rather bring the daughter to the masjid to be part of her halaal nikaax or taker her to the party with undred men watching while her hair is expossed. The Other muslims make the girl wear hijaab. Somali nikaah hypocracy has risen to all time high.
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Actaully the best nikaax is when you're sitting in ur room eating ur ice cream and someone calls you and say: you're engaged now.The whole nikaax happens elswhere and nobody bothers with to much hadal. :up:
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caburiye1 wrote:


all the Muslims make the girl come to the nikaax and be part of the Islamic part of the wedding. The Somali Munaafiqiin do not let the girl come to the mosque for the nikaax but again take her to the party and strip her almost naked for hundred men to see.

Would you rather bring the daughter to the masjid to be part of her halaal nikaax or taker her to the party with undred men watching while her hair is expossed. The Other muslims make the girl wear hijaab. Somali nikaah hypocracy has risen to all time high.

noo that not proper way to do it
where is her mahraam
and how can you have free mixing like that in a masajid
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Her Mahram is sitting next to the Sheikh. I don't see any mixing. I see the women are sitting in one side and the men are sitting in Another side. Mixing does not mean Not being in the same masjid with others.This girl Came for her halaal nikaax in the house of allah. What could be more right for her to do?

Do you believe it is haram for the bride to come to the masjid to be part of her nikaax.
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I have also learnt that,

Qubul hee Kiya Means " waan aqbalay guurkeeda" In Urdu.
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I've never seen any nikaax performed in either way. I've always learnt the woman must have a representative speaking for her. Always. A particular wedding in my family was similar to the first, but instead of the women being in the same room, the camera linked to a projector in an adjacent one.

My problem with Somali weddings is that the girls no how to party, but the dudes, it's like "eat your bariis and gtfo". That ain't right. After the nikaax of a good friend of mine, we played COD for 9 hours till he got his wife. I don't know if it's just my small circle of friends or if this is how it usually goes.
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Alpha, that's how it goes. After the needed and wise words and bariis iyo hilib, the dude needs to gtf away from the venue and just disappear for the rest of the day.
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how guys party, meyey heesi lahayeen?

we just eat and leave.
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Yeah but guys, c'mon. There's gotta be something to do besides waiting in a parking till your new wife comes out of the party.
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Alpha like what?

my sister once teased my uncle to go day of men spa and spend rest of the day to be pampered, then he said: in la is salsalaho!! he means the massage :lol:
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Alphanumeric wrote:I've never seen any nikaax performed in either way. I've always learnt the woman must have a representative speaking for her. Always. A particular wedding in my family was similar to the first, but instead of the women being in the same room, the camera linked to a projector in an adjacent one.

My problem with Somali weddings is that the girls no how to party, but the dudes, it's like "eat your bariis and gtfo". That ain't right. After the nikaax of a good friend of mine, we played COD for 9 hours till he got his wife. I don't know if it's just my small circle of friends or if this is how it usually goes.
i'd much rather be doing that anyway
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Lol, nah, I wouldn't get a massage either. But I don't know man, this just doesn't seem right. I actually spent 4 hours in a parking lot once. That's effed up, no?
I think I'll plan to go sky diving.

Fah, lol, I'm not much of a gamer any more. It it were 6 years earlier, I would've gladly enjoyed it.
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Alphanumeric of course it doesn't seem right, because a wedding should be an event where extended families and friends of the couple come together and celebrate. Ever since the war we have been straying further and further away from our customs and traditions.
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Enlightened~Sista wrote:Alphanumeric of course it doesn't seem right, because a wedding should be an event where extended families and friends of the couple come together and celebrate. Ever since the war we have been straying further and further away from our customs and traditions.
abaayo believe me. We haven't lost much by loosing our customers/traditions. They were too old version and didn't have a place in the civilized world. We should't leave our religion but please let us all leave somali culture. It was written up by Old odayaal who needed their brain examined.
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Re: Maasha Allaah Beautiful Nikaax

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Alphanumeric wrote:Lol, nah, I wouldn't get a massage either. But I don't know man, this just doesn't seem right. I actually spent 4 hours in a parking lot once. That's effed up, no?
I think I'll plan to go sky diving.

Fah, lol, I'm not much of a gamer any more. It it were 6 years earlier, I would've gladly enjoyed it.
:lol: wtf alpha, you celebrate your wedding by performing a dangerous (potentially life ending sport) before you even see your wife (as your wife). :lol: smart, thats one way to escape the pressures of marriage :up:
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