I have to say your cousin of yours wanted some xalal uhm, and she knows it. He obviously pays for it by sacrificing something for it. But I can bet my life on it that his hormones will go down so drastically having the novelty of it goes away and he will start to think straight. Then there will be a transition phase and things won't be the same, so salool tell your family to be patient.
As for the turn of the topic about housework, shit I can imagine doing my wife's laundry and washing the dishes.

