Would you marry someone

[Mondey]

you love but cannot have children say for medical issues?

[salool]

Isn't the main reason to get married and put up with someons dhuuso for the rest of ur life to have children?
If you already have kids why not but if you dont i doubt that marriage will last unless you marry onther xalimo ofcourse.

[fighter]

You can have her as your main b!tch to kick it with.

Get another 3 women to have kids with them

Having kids is crucial. Children are your "retirement savings".

$100 from each child (inshallah we are blessed with 20 kids or more) equals $2000 a month.

[Kukri]

Why not, since you said already, someone that YOU LOVE.

Imaan hadaad leedahay oo ilaahay amiinsantahay then why the hell not? Adoption might not be the same as having your own child but in the eyes of Allah a child that you adopt is no different than one you gave birth to. In this case they even get more ajar for adoption.

its all down to iimaan.

[Daff]

Yes I would. I have seen couples who got maried and are still maried eventhough they later found out they can't have kids..20+ years now..like they say love is blind..

[fighter]

Yes Kukri is right... Adoption is also an option and there's ajir in it. Taking care of orphans and housing and loving them like your own son will get rewards from Allah

[salool]

Yes Kukri is right... Adoption is also an option and there's ajir in it. Taking care of orphans and housing and loving them like your own son will get rewards from Allah

Nothing is better then ur flesh and blood, qof aanad dhalin uma samraysid.I doubt any women would waste her time over a man who cant have any kids.

[Mondey]

Isn't the main reason to get married and put up with someons dhuuso for the rest of ur life to have children?
If you already have kids why not but if you dont i doubt that marriage will last unless you marry onther xalimo ofcourse.

im not sure if the purpose of marriage is having kids who said that? we marry bcoz it equals half of our religion and to satisfy our sexual desires in a halaal way.

[Kukri]

Samirku ilaahay bu ka imaada just like, out of nothing Allah created all these.

[Twist]

Caruurta Ilaah baa haya but if I love (though I am losing faith in the term time after time) them why not? Children are important part of marriage but so is love.

What about if you have children with someone but you don't love them and had to stay with them for reasons beyond your control (like you married them for a wrong reason [may be for wealth, status or looks whatever], had children with them & you got stuck etc)? And let's say, the children you had from that relationship are caaq. Is that better?

[Mondey]

Why not, since you said already, someone that YOU LOVE.

Imaan hadaad leedahay oo ilaahay amiinsantahay then why the hell not? Adoption might not be the same as having your own child but in the eyes of Allah a child that you adopt is no different than one you gave birth to. In this case they even get more ajar for adoption.

its all down to iimaan.

adoption is a good way, but the adopted kid wont carry ur name its not allowed religion wise.

[Mondey]

Yes I would. I have seen couples who got maried and are still maried eventhough they later found out they can't have kids..20+ years now..like they say love is blind..

only those who marry for having lots kids and big family will weep for not having kids, not someone married for love and settling.

[Mizz_Sland]

maybe....

[QaaliDumar]

I probably would. That's LOVE after all.

[salool]

Isn't the main reason to get married and put up with someons dhuuso for the rest of ur life to have children?
If you already have kids why not but if you dont i doubt that marriage will last unless you marry onther xalimo ofcourse.

im not sure if the purpose of marriage is having kids who said that? we marry bcoz it equals half of our religion and to satisfy our sexual desires in a halaal way.

Many pple do that of that main reason only and once they've it the marriage is over.The few who do it out of love the love wont last foever.It will fade just like any other feeling and once the attraction is gone the man will look around for his next victim thinking this time this feelin it wil last forever.Aduunkan wax isku dheeli tirin ma jirto wax kastana wa iska calaf iyo qoraal.It's not about ur choices or plans...ur whole life is already planned before you were even born.So why even bother, personally i dont, i just take the day as it come.