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House Guests

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How tolerant and hospitable are you? Ever had guests stay for more than a year , if yes, how did you 'cope'?




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What kind of house guest stays for more than a year? I would charge the bastard for rent.
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I think u need to change their status from a guest.Guests dont stay forever.


The longest i had one was 3 months.I kinda laid out the rules after the 3rd week of being the perfect host.
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accident wrote:What kind of house guest stays for more than a year? I would charge the bastard for rent.
:lol: :lol: LMAO
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I ignore them, generally. Avoid speaking, eye contact, and being in the same room. If possible, avoid being awake at the same time. Thankfully, I've only once had the burden of a guest.


May have the experience of being a guest very soon. I will let you know how that turns out.
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More than a year aah? :lol:
Those aren't guests they're lodgers
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It depends if family or close relative then they can stay as long as they want....the rest no more than a month, I rember back home relatives would come to visit and stay forever.
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I've had tooo many over the years.. Im always overly nice for the first few days.. After that I go into hiding.. :|

We once had this 'guest' stay for like 2 months straight *for the whole winter*.. Funny thing was he lived in the same city as us and it seemed like he just moved in, without us noticing.. :lol: After the first week.. I did my best to avoid him like the plague.. :|
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No guests has stayed with us for more than a week or two, if they were to proceed for more than one month the title 'guest' has no value after that.
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Saraxnow,

I have a problem with MARTI MARTI wadato; this happens when you invite someone to stay in your home and he/she brings her/his friends to stay with him.

This phenomenon is very common at my house. I think, I need to rent a one bedroom apartment instead of the 4 bedrooms.
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Wa la so dhaweeya calooshana wa lo buuxiya. :up:
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Most of my guests have been fam, so I don't mind :D The only problem with having guests is that dhabarka ayaad ka jabi saad wax nadiifanaysid. And the longest we've hosted people were close to 2 months.
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Re: House Guests

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first three days treat them like kings after the three days have passed he has no more rights over you. now u can grap him by the neck and throw him and his rubbish out the door uncle phil style

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salool wrote:Wa la so dhaweeya calooshana wa lo buuxiya. :up:
Salool walle wax la martiyo ayaad tahay. :up:
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accident wrote:What kind of house guest stays for more than a year? I would charge the bastard for rent.
:| That's not very nice/possible even.
Beans wrote:I think u need to change their status from a guest.Guests dont stay forever.


The longest i had one was 3 months.I kinda laid out the rules after the 3rd week of being the perfect host.
:up: :lol:
Alphanumeric wrote:I ignore them, generally. Avoid speaking, eye contact, and being in the same room. If possible, avoid being awake at the same time. Thankfully, I've only once had the burden of a guest.


May have the experience of being a guest very soon. I will let you know how that turns out.
You can only avoid them for so long. LOL tell us how it goes :up:
seemeyer wrote:More than a year aah? :lol:
Those aren't guests they're lodgers
Wallahi waxaanu lahayn guests ilaa 2 sanadood straight and more after, free food and living :lol:
DafIyoMiriq wrote:It depends if family or close relative then they can stay as long as they want....the rest no more than a month, I rember back home relatives would come to visit and stay forever.
Yes, that is what happened to us, relatives would come and when they left others would take their place. Walle I don't think there were better hosts than us waliba :lol:
WestLdnShawty wrote:I've had tooo many over the years.. Im always overly nice for the first few days.. After that I go into hiding.. :|

We once had this 'guest' stay for like 2 months straight *for the whole winter*.. Funny thing was he lived in the same city as us and it seemed like he just moved in, without us noticing.. :lol: After the first week.. I did my best to avoid him like the plague.. :|
:lol: First time you meet them and then you stay away,give up the living room to them and make space, cook extra.. more house chores basically :lol:
Rabshoole wrote:No guests has stayed with us for more than a week or two, if they were to proceed for more than one month the title 'guest' has no value after that.
But family is family :|
Lamgoodle wrote:Saraxnow,

I have a problem with MARTI MARTI wadato; this happens when you invite someone to stay in your home and he/she brings her/his friends to stay with him.

This phenomenon is very common at my house. I think, I need to rent a one bedroom apartment instead of the 4 bedrooms.
:? Strange, that is rude I think, bringing other people with you , ''freebies'' meesha lagu bixinayo? :down: Waa qalad in friends, friends kale soo kaxeysto without permission.
salool wrote:Wa la so dhaweeya calooshana wa lo buuxiya. :up:
:clap: Haaye, lakiin miyaanad ka daaleyn after say 6 months?
Lillaahiya wrote:Most of my guests have been fam, so I don't mind :D The only problem with having guests is that dhabarka ayaad ka jabi saad wax nadiifanaysid. And the longest we've hosted people were close to 2 months.
True, family waa la xamilikara. Only 2 months? :|


@Nomand, you and accident should be each others guests :up: :lol: That's only possible if they were your friends but family is different :|
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