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Would you do a background check on guy

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you think is a marriage material?

I always been against the whole idea of digging pples past, because i realy believe one can change to the better.
But after hearing this story i think it's great idea..we've have great actors out there who play pious to DECEIVE this
poor innocent girls into marriage.

A simple phone call from a relative saved this woman from doing the biggest mistake in her life.Very important Information that made her to call off the wedding.Dont forget to ask this simple Q to ur future farax, it will save you alot of embarssment.Su'aashan waa , waliga khamri ma cabtay, amba ma cabta? ;)

Be carefull when the guy has moved from onther country and ask urself why.To cover his ugly past maybe.


Keep in mind, relatives are the best detectives one can have. :mrgreen:

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Do you work for a news agency, salool? Waanba kaa yaabaye how many "stories" about marriages/relationships do you hear every week? :|
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How many stories about marriages do i share every week, have u stopped taking ur meds Twist? :|
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It's stupid not to know if someone drinks or not.

For me the following were the deal breakers: drinking, divorcee and the angry ex.
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Doing background checking is very important, Marriage is not an easy task. you are moving from one stage to a new unknown stage so some form of certainty is needed. He might be a serial killer. she might have been a hooker who jst acts as wadaadad.
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Foxy22 wrote:It's stupid not to know if someone drinks or not.

For me the following were the deal breakers: drinking, divorcee and the angry ex.
The guy used drink and liv in onther country thats why nobody noticed.I dont know if he still do it but the fact he hided this info from her was enough to leave him.



PrinceDaadi wrote:Doing background checking is very important, Marriage is not an easy task. you are moving from one stage to a new unknown stage so some form of certainty is needed. He might be a serial killer. she might have been a hooker who jst acts as wadaadad.
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Naag reeraheeda ku xiran hadday tahay waxaas oo dhan kama walwasheen. Waxaas oo kale waxay ku dhacaan dumarka banaanadaas mar mara oo meelaha laga afduubto :D
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Years ago something like that but slightly far worse did happen to this girl.

Again different country and it was online hook up. She found herself married to a freaking drunk... poor darling. Not only would he drink peacefully but he would beat the shit out of her too.... Qalaas.. there is nothing worse than a drunk Somali!
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:shock: Foxy Is she still with him? subxanallah guurki qaarki singlnimada aya dhaanta walle.
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Helwa,

Alla she did a runner during the honeymoon poor girl
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Walle she is lucky then. :up:
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PrinceDaadi wrote:Doing background checking is very important, Marriage is not an easy task. you are moving from one stage to a new unknown stage so some form of certainty is needed. He might be a serial killer. she might have been a hooker who jst acts as wadaadad.
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Ufff the kinds of things you hear these days :down:

Going in blind is suicide, background check waa lazim.
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Who participates in these background checks? Do you ask parents, aunts, cousins or friends to do the background check?

And they find out about their antics through friends of friends who see them regularly right?
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Are you lot planing on marrying wax aanan kaseeynin? if a man keeps his friends away from you ka carar, when you get to know his friends iyakaaba kusheegayo wax walbo :up:
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