Marriage back home

[Aemon85]

Question to the brothers and sisters of this forum

Brothers are there any of you who would consider getting married to a girl in somalia or would you rather marry someone who grew up in the west? same applies to the sisters too. What do you think of the idea of raising your kids back home.

Would it work? can it work? do you know anyone who has a wife/husband back home, they do say as long as the two people involved are happy it doesn't matter.

What do you think?

[BlackVelvet]

Well if you marry someone from back home you can still bring them abroad. In that case it works the same as marrying any one of the new arrivals.

Raising kids in Africa is a great idea.

[Alphanumeric]

I'm not up for it. I don't think it will work, unless you choose to stay there. Even then, difficulties specific to the differences in upbringing may arise. I don't know anyone who's been raised here and chose someone to marry who's been raised there.

Kids is a whole 'nother issue.

[QaaliDumar]

Qof dalkii jooga guurkiisa maxaa igu wata maba is afgaranayno.

Back home as in Somalia mise Africa?

[Aemon85]

Qof dalkii jooga guurkiisa maxaa igu wata maba is afgaranayno.

Back home as in Somalia mise Africa?

Somalia

I'm not up for it. I don't think it will work, unless you choose to stay there. Even then, difficulties specific to the differences in upbringing may arise. I don't know anyone who's been raised here and chose someone to marry who's been raised there.

Kids is a whole 'nother issue.

alpha, i know few guys who got married back in somalia even though they where raised in the UK, don't know if the marriage is working for them though?

[QaaliDumar]

Qof dalkii jooga guurkiisa maxaa igu wata maba is afgaranayno.

Back home as in Somalia mise Africa?

Somalia

I'm not up for it. I don't think it will work, unless you choose to stay there. Even then, difficulties specific to the differences in upbringing may arise. I don't know anyone who's been raised here and chose someone to marry who's been raised there.

Kids is a whole 'nother issue.

alpha, i know few guys who got married back in somalia even though they where raised in the UK, don't know if the marriage is working for them though?

Hadday dhismato insha allah, I don't see why not.

[Alphanumeric]

Aemon,

What did they say about their marriage beforehand? Or were they unaware about it before leaving?

[Thuganomics]

I already did

[Alphanumeric]

I already did

How fluent is your spoken Somali? Did you find any difficulties in difference of upbringing? How long ago was this? Lol

[Thuganomics]

^
My Somalli was pretty bad at one time A1,it has improved by leaps and bounds in the last ten years though sxb
With a lot of effort from my part of course.Plus I have had long periods back in SL in the last decade too

[Alphanumeric]

Do you feel that as long as language is not a barrier, the rest is easily accomplished?

[greenday]

I only know of one girl who married from back home inta kale waa niman plus all speak Somali well so thats not a problem

[Thuganomics]

Do you feel that as long as language is not a barrier, the rest is easily accomplished?

Even with a language barrier it's easily accompolished sxb
As long as you have family members back home to look out for your interest

[Hyperactive]

why not? people married people they dont share language or nationality! my granpa married punjabi lady and mind you that was some 60+ years ago, brought her to harar /gableed and had around 8 kids. my uncle married egyptian, dad married yemenian. they all happily married and have kids.

if we could marry other nationalities why not somali person?

[tightrope]

ARE YOU PART PUNJABI?