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¨If you love two people at the same time, choose the second one, because if you really loved the first one you wouldn´t have fallen for the second.''

or do u think one can be equally in love with two people at the same time?

I dont believe you can love 2 people at the same time, you must have fallen out of love with the first one to fall for the other so yea go with the new comer! but iska ogoow jaceylkaaga waa malayacni if it can be swayed that easy

I think you could be in love with two people at the same time, but in two different ways, you know? I don't think you could romantically love two people in the very same way.

Love is simply finding within someone, all the characteristics we wish we had, and developing a deep infatuation for that person because of who they are. If either your views of which characteristics are ideal or the other's personality begins to change, love fades. Love is futile.

greenday wrote:I dont believe you can love 2 people at the same time, you must have fallen out of love with the first one to fall for the other so yea go with the new comer! but iska ogoow jaceylkaaga waa malayacni if it can be swayed that easy

What happened to sticking with who you got, no matter what? Multiple wives clause goes out the window, when it comes to "love"? Or is this new opinion solely for you/women?

@Blitz, Unless they were identical twins

I always laugh at people who talk about love and never been in it

Perfect_Order wrote:I always laugh at people who talk about love and never been in it

Define it. I'd like to know more.

Alphanumeric wrote:Love is simply finding within someone, all the characteristics we wish we had, and developing a deep infatuation for that person because of who they are. If either your views of which characteristics are ideal or the other's personality begins to change, love fades. Love is futile.

greenday wrote:I dont believe you can love 2 people at the same time, you must have fallen out of love with the first one to fall for the other so yea go with the new comer! but iska ogoow jaceylkaaga waa malayacni if it can be swayed that easy

What happened to sticking with who you got, no matter what? Multiple wives clause goes out the window, when it comes to "love"? Or is this new opinion solely for you/women?

Alpha, what you described is love, spot on


I believe that if you can live with the person, no need to go else where but if it gets to the stage where you "hate" them its time to leave Men think that they can not be bother to divorce or dont feel like it even though they dont like/want the first wife so they marry another Its a very selfish act walahi.

Perfect_Order wrote:I always laugh at people who talk about love and never been in it

How do you know who has or hasn't been init?

Alphanumeric wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:I always laugh at people who talk about love and never been in it

Define it. I'd like to know more.

So the definition is
lol

Next to impossible for women.

tricky but not hard for men.

This sounds a lot like an opening argument for cheating.

You know when your in love, what is the point of describing it?

greenday wrote:

Alphanumeric wrote:Love is simply finding within someone, all the characteristics we wish we had, and developing a deep infatuation for that person because of who they are. If either your views of which characteristics are ideal or the other's personality begins to change, love fades. Love is futile.

greenday wrote:I dont believe you can love 2 people at the same time, you must have fallen out of love with the first one to fall for the other so yea go with the new comer! but iska ogoow jaceylkaaga waa malayacni if it can be swayed that easy

What happened to sticking with who you got, no matter what? Multiple wives clause goes out the window, when it comes to "love"? Or is this new opinion solely for you/women?

Alpha, what you described is love, spot on


I believe that if you can live with the person, no need to go else where but if it gets to the stage where you "hate" them its time to leave Men think that they can not be bother to divorce or dont feel like it even though they dont like/want the first wife so they marry another Its a very selfish act walahi.

I agree. But I feel most of us don't understand the purpose of communication and compromise. Everyone has faults and everybody argues. Knowing how you feel is important. Unfortunately, as I've said many times, Somalis (and really, most people) are emotionally vacant and have little understanding and appreciate for dialogue.

In the end, I question if it's worth it. Everyone of us are continuously changing. Who we are today may not be who we are in 5 years. What good then, is 'love'?


PO,

How does one know?