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how do youdeal with those kind of people

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Women who just give you hard time: making things up about you even when they do not know you.

I have come across few times women who gave me dirty look, hard look, huruuf. Walaahi it happened to me in masjid. Naag yar oo somali ah oo uur leh baan meel aan ka galo waayey. i never met her before.She kept standing next to me in prayer and wey i hurrufeysaa ilaa aan ka sii jeesto. I do not know why.

couple of others did the same.
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You must be quruxleey, next time ask them to say mashallah :up: or waxba kaa qaladan and they don't know how to tell you.
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She stood next to you in prayer?
What mosque was that then
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Re: how do youdeal with those kind of people

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Are you implying the young Somali pregnant woman is khaniisad :?
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Re: how do youdeal with those kind of people

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Oh!!shaw waa gabadh OPdu :lol: :lol:
Name kinda sounds masculine
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bit threw me off
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walahi this is not a joke. It drove me mad. Tan uurka lah inaan la dagaalo ayey aheyd instead I gave her young son some water. I do not want to say the name of the mosque, but walahi it is true. I do not know waxa iga qaldan waayo I was wearing full xijaab as it was rmadan tarawiix.

may be fuley baan ahey. 8-)


I misspelled my name. I wanted to write dhaiman( dheeyman).
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Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.
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Beans wrote:Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

No, it wasnot like that. The mosque was quite spacious(in the womens' section). She would come next to me or come and look for me. Walahi it was very strange and annoying. But I came across a couple of cases like that. None of them had seem me before. The minutes they saw me they started huruuf in a very unreasoble way :o
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what's huruuf? sounds dangerous.
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daiman wrote:
Beans wrote:Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

No, it wasnot like that. The mosque was quite spacious(in the womens' section). She would come next to me or come and look for me. Walahi it was very strange and annoying. But I came across a couple of cases like that. None of them had seem me before. The minutes they saw me they started huruuf in a very unreasoble way :o
Maybe they know u more than u think.Maybe a rumour flew.
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Re: how do youdeal with those kind of people

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Keyblade wrote:what's huruuf? sounds dangerous.
:lol: :lol: :lol:
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Beans wrote:
daiman wrote:
Beans wrote:Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

No, it wasnot like that. The mosque was quite spacious(in the womens' section). She would come next to me or come and look for me. Walahi it was very strange and annoying. But I came across a couple of cases like that. None of them had seem me before. The minutes they saw me they started huruuf in a very unreasoble way :o
Maybe they know u more than u think.Maybe a rumour flew.


No, I can asure you that they had never seen me before.

There are two women who know me who spread rumours about me but those ones knew me in person. So I am not surprised they did that. They told me that I am ugly in my face :cry:
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Re: how do youdeal with those kind of people

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yeah right :-@
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when you know the person ku huruufaya, you can deal with it. I will huruuf back and perhaps have an idea why they are hostile, but when you do not know them at all, it is had to take. Would you fight back? ask them why?
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okay seriously, the hell is a huruuf?
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