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Women who just give you hard time: making things up about you even when they do not know you.

I have come across few times women who gave me dirty look, hard look, huruuf. Walaahi it happened to me in masjid. Naag yar oo somali ah oo uur leh baan meel aan ka galo waayey. i never met her before.She kept standing next to me in prayer and wey i hurrufeysaa ilaa aan ka sii jeesto. I do not know why.

couple of others did the same.

You must be quruxleey, next time ask them to say mashallah or waxba kaa qaladan and they don't know how to tell you.

She stood next to you in prayer?
What mosque was that then

Are you implying the young Somali pregnant woman is khaniisad

Oh!!shaw waa gabadh OPdu
Name kinda sounds masculine

daiman

bit threw me off

walahi this is not a joke. It drove me mad. Tan uurka lah inaan la dagaalo ayey aheyd instead I gave her young son some water. I do not want to say the name of the mosque, but walahi it is true. I do not know waxa iga qaldan waayo I was wearing full xijaab as it was rmadan tarawiix.

may be fuley baan ahey.


I misspelled my name. I wanted to write dhaiman( dheeyman).

Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

Beans wrote:Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

No, it wasnot like that. The mosque was quite spacious(in the womens' section). She would come next to me or come and look for me. Walahi it was very strange and annoying. But I came across a couple of cases like that. None of them had seem me before. The minutes they saw me they started huruuf in a very unreasoble way

what's huruuf? sounds dangerous.

daiman wrote:

Beans wrote:Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

No, it wasnot like that. The mosque was quite spacious(in the womens' section). She would come next to me or come and look for me. Walahi it was very strange and annoying. But I came across a couple of cases like that. None of them had seem me before. The minutes they saw me they started huruuf in a very unreasoble way

Maybe they know u more than u think.Maybe a rumour flew.

Keyblade wrote:what's huruuf? sounds dangerous.

Beans wrote:

daiman wrote:

Beans wrote:Maybe u were suffocating and hoped u would get the msg that way.

No, it wasnot like that. The mosque was quite spacious(in the womens' section). She would come next to me or come and look for me. Walahi it was very strange and annoying. But I came across a couple of cases like that. None of them had seem me before. The minutes they saw me they started huruuf in a very unreasoble way

Maybe they know u more than u think.Maybe a rumour flew.

No, I can asure you that they had never seen me before.

There are two women who know me who spread rumours about me but those ones knew me in person. So I am not surprised they did that. They told me that I am ugly in my face

yeah right

when you know the person ku huruufaya, you can deal with it. I will huruuf back and perhaps have an idea why they are hostile, but when you do not know them at all, it is had to take. Would you fight back? ask them why?

okay seriously, the hell is a huruuf?