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Girls follow these rules and inshallah you will be a good wife to your future husband.. There is not alot to learn since we women are not as smart as our men but we have our own responsibility in our society..

1. Sis don't argue with brothers ok no one likes a feminist opinion just ask question nicely with sharaf and they will answer to you.

2. Focus on learning new receipe and cooking. I know many of you here already do that i can tell by your profile pic you guys are tired and angry that momy is forcing you to cook for 14 sibling but inshallah it will be worth it later when you have your own 8 kids ok so be patient and keep learning.

3. you don't need university/college that is for kuffars and will polute your mind. Look at me I have grade 10 education and can type and read better then you guys who claim your in school. Study your deen more and leave the intellectual debate to men its not our place ladies.

4. when nin sharaf ask you for marriage. Be glad that someone wants to make you xalal. Many girls act hard to get at age 17-25 and by the time they turn 26 are old and ugly and bitter. Get married by age 18 don't wait until you get old and bitter ok sis.

5. Don't have alot of feminist girlfriend. Try not to gossip or talk alot with other girl just exchange receipe and cooking and cleaning tip. we should not talk about politics, qabil, education or anything else this is a man topic our topic should be what you have made today. while typing this I just put a nice pinapple cake in the oven and cleaned up the entire house.

6. dissing and caydaa badaan shows your feminist.. keep your writing clean and pure and don't argue with your fellow somali guys that could be your future husband ok sis. I know its hard for many of you guys now but sooner or later you will be in the kitchen so what is the point of wasting 4 years being feminist?
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This is the responsibility of a woman when she finally been made Xalaal/Married...

1. To be a good loyal wife who has a calm soothing quiet voice..

2. When you get home its not your job to clean or cook or take care of unbehaved kids. This is your wife duty to make sure before you enter the house that the house is spotless clean, smells nice there is fresh food ready for you and the kids are all cleaned up and in their room ready for you to give them kisses and hugs. Also make sure you are cleaned up dont' wear the same baati you were cooking and cleaning with make sure your hair is blow dried not jareer and you are smelling nice put on some make up if you look tired to freshen up ok sis.

3. Don't start arguing or raising your voice as a wife. He maybe tired or had bad day at work be quiet smile to him and make him feel relaxed. After he gets off the shower and wants to see what's on the news. Be a good wife and start massaging his feet. Don't say anything unless he ask you question. Make sure your girls are not calling you after 5pm its very rude to answer the phone while your husband is at home.

4. Don't give him warmed up microwave or 1 day old food. make sure the food is hot and ready for him to eat fresh. Otherwise he can go to a Somali restaurant and order food or eat there so show him you are putting effort in him.

5. Don't sit and eat with him that is very rude and unnatractive what is beautiful is to eat his left overs this is what our great grandmothers use to do and its our dhaqan nothing to be ashamed of and he will love you for that ok sis.

6. Once he is finished the food make sure you remove the plate and clean up. by this time he wants some time to talk to his friends and watch some sport game don't lurk around go to your room or start to put the kids to bed. Make sure you discipline your kids not to yell when daddy is home. Yelling and unbehaved kids is the reason husbands divorce the wife and leave. If you need help he will help you with it for the boys but you are home wiht the kids so its your duty to train them to be well behaved kids. And sis you will have the time if your not feminist who is working or going to school ok sis.

8. when he calls you to the bedroom be happy have a smile on your face do what he ask you to do. He is your husband and you will get many ajjar by following his command and a happy husband is a happy home sis ok. Don't follow these feminist who are now divorce or not married or geting married with drug dealers at age 27.

if you are asking yourself why I haven't met a good guy.. its not that you haven't its you who is not perfect. you need to change your lifestyle and how you react. Good sharaf guys don't like feminist westernize girls who only talk about expensive wedding, and what a man should give them ok sis mashallah you follow this and you have a happy long marriage.
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5. Don't sit and eat with him that is very rude and unnatractive what is beautiful is to eat his left overs this is what our great grandmothers use to do and its our dhaqan nothing to be ashamed of and he will love you for that ok sis.

6. Once he is finished the food make sure you remove the plate and clean up. by this time he wants some time to talk to his friends and watch some sport game don't lurk around go to your room or start to put the kids to bed. Make sure you discipline your kids not to yell when daddy is home. Yelling and unbehaved kids is the reason husbands divorce the wife and leave. If you need help he will help you with it for the boys but you are home wiht the kids so its your duty to train them to be well behaved kids. And sis you will have the time if your not feminist who is working or going to school ok sis.
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:lol: :up: such women do not exist anymore.
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5. Don't sit and eat with him that is very rude and unnatractive what is beautiful is to eat his left overs this is what our great grandmothers use to do and its our dhaqan nothing to be ashamed of and he will love you for that ok sis.
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Du$ty you are a Xalimo? So dhawoow abaayo. :up: :mrgreen:

Lakin we need to nurse back into health, clearly you have suffered serve domestic abuse.
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WHERE CAN I FIND THIS WOMEN, THIS IS MY DREAM WOMEN :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock:

THis is how women should be wallahi, I hope this lady gives this advice to many women. She is the best women I read :shock: :up: :up:
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Booyaaso mushaar qaadata ha qorto.
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SOS someone find me that girl :oops:
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BlackVelvet wrote:Du$ty you are a Xalimo? So dhawoow abaayo. :up: :mrgreen:

Lakin we need to nurse back into health, clearly you have suffered serve domestic abuse.
Hey You Black :lol: Wallahi Its Not Me :-@
Shall I Post Her Facebook Link??
She's Looking For A Farah And Im Happily Married To A Drop Dead Gorgeous Woman..Thats 12 Years Younger Than Me :mrgreen:
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Did some have a gun to her head when she wrote this :?
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greenday wrote:Did some have a gun to her head when she wrote this :?
Shhhh Take Notes :mrgreen:
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Du$ty wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:Du$ty you are a Xalimo? So dhawoow abaayo. :up: :mrgreen:

Lakin we need to nurse back into health, clearly you have suffered serve domestic abuse.
Hey You Black :lol: Wallahi Its Not Me :-@
Shall I Post Her Facebook Link??
She's Looking For A Farah And Im Happily Married To A Drop Dead Gorgeous Woman..Thats 12 Years Younger Than Me :mrgreen:
Are you telling us you are willing to create a fake facebook account to prove you are not a Xalimo? :lol:
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Du$ty wrote:
Girls follow these rules and inshallah you will be a good wife to your future husband.. There is not alot to learn since we women are not as smart as our men but we have our own responsibility in our society..

1. Sis don't argue with brothers ok no one likes a feminist opinion just ask question nicely with sharaf and they will answer to you.

2. Focus on learning new receipe and cooking. I know many of you here already do that i can tell by your profile pic you guys are tired and angry that momy is forcing you to cook for 14 sibling but inshallah it will be worth it later when you have your own 8 kids ok so be patient and keep learning.

3. you don't need university/college that is for kuffars and will polute your mind. Look at me I have grade 10 education and can type and read better then you guys who claim your in school. Study your deen more and leave the intellectual debate to men its not our place ladies.

4. when nin sharaf ask you for marriage. Be glad that someone wants to make you xalal. Many girls act hard to get at age 17-25 and by the time they turn 26 are old and ugly and bitter. Get married by age 18 don't wait until you get old and bitter ok sis.

5. Don't have alot of feminist girlfriend. Try not to gossip or talk alot with other girl just exchange receipe and cooking and cleaning tip. we should not talk about politics, qabil, education or anything else this is a man topic our topic should be what you have made today. while typing this I just put a nice pinapple cake in the oven and cleaned up the entire house.

6. dissing and caydaa badaan shows your feminist.. keep your writing clean and pure and don't argue with your fellow somali guys that could be your future husband ok sis. I know its hard for many of you guys now but sooner or later you will be in the kitchen so what is the point of wasting 4 years being feminist?


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If every woman followed these simple rules, there would be no divorce.
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