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Finaly Divorced but Need Your advice

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guys,

I got Peacefully divorced Yesterday after Jumca Prayers. The girl, her family and everybody else is at peace with the decision. That chapter is closed as it has never happened before.

Need your advice in My next move. even though all the tests have revealed that I have low sperm count ( 4 Million instead of the Minnimum 20 Million.) I still have some even though my chances are low. Do you think I should share my history with my future dates or just assume nothing has happened and move on? I don't consider it cheating because am not absolutely sure myself whether I am gonna have babies or not. Should I just say, gabar ayaan 3 sanno isqabnay waana kala tagnay markaan caruur iska waynay?

What do you guys think?
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Re: Finaly Divorced but Need Your advice

Post by samadoon-waaxid »

is this is a real story or u trolling? :|
makes a note to self:jerk off in a bottle and take it to a doctor for a sperm count test.
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wallaahi am not lying sxb. I am for real. I come in here because am too shy to share with people outside.
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Okay if you're serious about this, why on earth are you already thinking about other women, arent u supposed to be getting over ur ex first? :?
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share your situation straight away in order to avoid unnecessary problems. btw, U can still have kids.
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why do you blame it your low sperm count? maybe that girl had no eggs.
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After you said "walaahi" I am taking your seriously...

You know I've been coming in here to jooke around but right now I'm gona reveal true proper side..

Brother, may the good lord be your comfort bc it is pretty harsh and worrisome to know that u just can't normally have children. And especially after you spened so much money and resources into this marriege. What u have done is honorable. Lettinng her go was a manly move.

Please listen to me and listen to me carefuly. All is not lost. I have the best solution to your problem. Do not let Somalis and theeir limitation and criticism discourage you. So go and marry a Muslim Indian in India. While down there. Take your wife to the vertilization clinics. The amount of money to do it a fraction of how much u would spend here. All they gona do is take your sperm to her egg. Very simple procedure but one that right now worries you and streses you. Don't stress yoursself now. Dantaada garo..iska dhagoolasii dadka soomaalida iyo xantooda..ilaah na taladaada saaro. Kheyr baa kuu rajeynayaa
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After you said "walaahi" I am taking your seriously...

You know I've been coming in here to jooke around but right now I'm gona reveal true proper side..

Brother, may the good lord be your comfort bc it is pretty harsh and worrisome to know that u just can't normally have children. And especially after you spened so much money and resources into this marriege. What u have done is honorable. Lettinng her go was a manly move.

Please listen to me and listen to me carefuly. All is not lost. I have the best solution to your problem. Do not let Somalis and theeir limitation and criticism discourage you. So go and marry a Muslim Indian in India. While down there. Take your wife to the vertilization clinics. The amount of money to do it a fraction of how much u would spend here. All they gona do is take your sperm to her egg. Very simple procedure but one that right now worries you and streses you. Don't stress yoursself now. Dantaada garo..iska dhagoolasii dadka soomaalida iyo xantooda..ilaah na taladaada saaro. Kheyr baa kuu rajeynayaa
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Lucky bastard ! No more unplanned pregos :up:
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Blame the woman bro, and dont admit anything. As far as we know, she is the one who cannot get pregnant. :)
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Coeus wrote:Blame the woman bro, and dont admit anything. As far as we know, she is the one who cannot get pregnant. :)
I don't even have to blame it on her. Somalis normally accept " caruur ayaan kala waynay walaasha markaas ayaan kala irsaaqad doonanay" reason.
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AbdiWahab252 wrote:Lucky bastard ! No more unplanned pregos :up:
Maxaad kawadaah?
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MenaceToSociety wrote:After you said "walaahi" I am taking your seriously...

You know I've been coming in here to jooke around but right now I'm gona reveal true proper side..

Brother, may the good lord be your comfort bc it is pretty harsh and worrisome to know that u just can't normally have children. And especially after you spened so much money and resources into this marriege. What u have done is honorable. Lettinng her go was a manly move.

Please listen to me and listen to me carefuly. All is not lost. I have the best solution to your problem. Do not let Somalis and theeir limitation and criticism discourage you. So go and marry a Muslim Indian in India. While down there. Take your wife to the vertilization clinics. The amount of money to do it a fraction of how much u would spend here. All they gona do is take your sperm to her egg. Very simple procedure but one that right now worries you and streses you. Don't stress yoursself now. Dantaada garo..iska dhagoolasii dadka soomaalida iyo xantooda..ilaah na taladaada saaro. Kheyr baa kuu rajeynayaa
I didn't like Invitrofertilization walaalo. My EX and I tried to research on that Option and it had more risky than positive. There is hypertension, blood pressure, multiple pregnancies, cancer, Misovluation etc.

wax wadnaha loodhawayn karo maaha.
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Marriage is a sacred covenant. It is a holy thing and I feel you and Somali men the likes of you cheapen it. You need to SIT DOWN and seriously REFLECT on your previous marriage and you need to pray to Allah for a year a least. Before you inflict yourself on another woman.
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Sealion wrote:Marriage is a sacred covenant. It is a holy thing and I feel you and Somali men the likes of you cheapen it. You need to SIT DOWN and seriously REFLECT on your previous marriage and you need to pray to Allah for a year a least. Before you inflict yourself on another woman.
sadly, i gotta agree on this

this dude could have stayed with his wife if he really loved her and adopted some Somali kids that are vulnerable to gaalo influence
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