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Dumar soo Gala #2

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I need assistance/help in dealing with friends of my xaas.
They keep talking smack about me though i do not know them.
One had the nerve to tell (xaaska) that i was (ciyaalka xaafada ish)
dress code wise. Another says to (xaaska) that i had an unwelcoming
face (qabiid/qamarji look). :shock:

After (xaaska) tells me such things about her supposedly friends, i brush
em off and say "dumarkiina shuqul yeesha".

Now am considering banning their friendship to the (xaas).

I mean if i hear about what another female thinks of me and says
behind my back (ill veto her friendship to them).

Now, what do you guys think of it, and how should i approach these backbiters of mine?
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Re: Dumar soo Gala #2

Post by salool »

Naagtada maxa ka si ah, sida ninkeeda loola xanta iyada oo so taagan? :o
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Tell your wife not to talk about people behind their back. She and her friends are 2 peas in a pod. If she tells you what they say about you imagine all the things she tells them about you....

You married a gossiper who doesn't know the meaning of privacy.
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Re: Dumar soo Gala #2

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They are strangers to me but are childhood friends of her.
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Re: Dumar soo Gala #2

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Why is she telling u everything they say? I doubt she would be happy with u dictating what her friends can be like what she needs to learn to filter.
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Beans wrote:Why is she telling u everything they say? I doubt she would be happy with u dictating what her friends can be like what she needs to learn to filter.
That question is what am trying to decode.

The way things are shaping up, im being forced
to take drastic measure.
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Re: Dumar soo Gala #2

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zingii wrote:
Beans wrote:Why is she telling u everything they say? I doubt she would be happy with u dictating what her friends can be like what she needs to learn to filter.
That question is what am trying to decode.

The way things are shaping up, im being forced
to take drastic measure.

Ask her point blank what she u wants,not what her friends say abt u. She married u while u were u no?

The stupidest thing a woman do is listen and make a decision in a marriage based on something another woman said.

Actually,the worst a woman can do is listen to another woman.IMO.
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