I realized they speak Maymay and strong Xamari accent, I speak standard Somali so you can see my problem 
. My mother, the kids Ayeeyo can speak both Maymay and that Xamari lingo as she lived in Xamar since the age of 3, the weird thing is they understand fully what I say, but I don't understand when they speak to each other or when they speak to my mother. My elder siblings have a working knowledge of Banadiri, MayMay culture and lingo, As a result I am cut out of whole conversations, it is annoying because it takes me back to my childhood days when I didn't speak Somali that well and all it took to cut me out was speak normal Somali. Hell no, I was born in Xamar cadey, SOS, how can these westerners cut me off, this is bang out of order.
my cousin ? what ? none of my immediate cousins are banadiri or that sort, what the hell ya talking about boy. 