Despite the general public being shocked by some of the antics of the gypsy community, it seems even the more controversial traditions may lead to romance.
Viewers of My Big Fat Gypsy Weddings were disgusted with the concept of 'grabbing' in the first series - a rather aggressive way of wooing women.But last night one couple claimed it had brought them together.
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Example of a grabbing, not theirs.
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I love this show it's so tacky and outrageous, also because I've never wittingly met a gypsy. Can't believe she married this dude though. Grabbing is when I guy carries a girl he likes off to a secluded setting and basically forces her (by twisting her arm/pinning her down) to kiss him/welcome his attentions.