BRIDE 'RAPED BY HUSBAND ON WEDDING NIGHT' !!!!!!!!!!!!

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BRIDE 'RAPED BY HUSBAND ON WEDDING NIGHT' !!!!!!!!!!!!

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Bride 'raped by husband on wedding night after she got so drunk she didn't want sex'
By Phil Vinter
PUBLISHED: 01:49 GMT, 2 May 2012 | UPDATED: 12:57 GMT, 2 May 2012



A husband raped his new wife on their wedding night after she told him she didn't want to have sex, a court heard.
The woman, who is in her 20s, told Exeter Crown Court she was so drunk after she returned home from the wedding reception that she told her husband she did not want to have sex.
However, her husband ignored her pleas and forced her into it against her will.

He is also charged with raping her another four times during their two-year marriage.

She finally went to the police after being attacked twice in two days. The husband denies five rapes.
Richard Crabb, prosecuting says the husband's attitude to his wife changed after the wedding and he developed a sense of entitlement, telling her 'You're my wife, it's allowed' when she complained about his attacks.

The husband is also accused of raping her when she was heavily pregnant, while she was still in stitches after the baby's Caesarean birth, and on two later occasions.

The wife denied inventing the allegations as a way of getting her husband out of her life and getting him into trouble.

She said: 'I was scared of him. I knew what a temper he has got. I was afraid he would take my babies. They are my life.

'I was petrified. I know it sounds messed up but it is how it was.

'I had loved him to bits but I did not want to live like that any more.

'On our wedding night I remember saying no and saying just because I am married to him I still had the right to say no.

'I remember saying it and then passing out for a bit and then finding him on top of me having sex with me. I did not want sex at that stage. That was why I had said no.'
The trial continues.



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I don't think rape is the accurate word here since they are married to each other, but he definitely forced himself onto her which is unacceptable. Also she is wrong for not allowing her husband to have sex with her on their wedding night or any other night for that matter, except when she has her periods or otherwise unable to.

In Islam denying the spouse sex is a crime, and it is solved in court. It is much better than the West who just leave that issue alone all together, which then lead to unhappy marriages either where the husband ends up cheating or beating his wife all because of sex. :down:
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The husband is also accused of raping her when she was heavily pregnant, while she was still in stitches after the baby's Caesarean birth,
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What a sick husband!
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Waa xoolo midkaan! And what is Adali on about ??
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Niya wrote:Waa xoolo midkaan! And what is Adali on about ??
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refusing the spouse sex, isn't that a crime in it self ?? don't you think that is inhumane itself ?? its not funny being refused sex you know, and because Western Nations do not have any policies dealing with this, the frustration of one of the spouse can sometimes lead to this kind of shit, and its not going to be pretty is it. Stop being emotional, I agree what he did was wrong, but in general I am against wives refusing sex to their husband, it is his right as a husband.
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^ Are the couple in question Muslims?
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No they are not, but what does that have to do with anything..?? the problem is common in all societies, I am comparing/contrasting how different societies deal with this common problem, I'm sorry but what is it that you do not understand, or are you just driven by emotions here ? I am equally horrified by what the husband did here, so do not try to malign me Ok.
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It has to do with you going off topic. I had to re-read the article to see if I missed something. The article is not about the Islamic view of what is or isn't considered rape.
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No they are not, but what does that have to do with anything..?? the problem is common in all societies, I am comparing/contrasting how different societies deal with this common problem, I'm sorry but what is it that you do not understand, or are you just driven by emotions here ? I am equally horrified by what the husband did here, so do not try to malign me Ok.
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What is wrong with people? if you dont feel safe even with your husband intee la adaa :|
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Re: BRIDE 'RAPED BY HUSBAND ON WEDDING NIGHT' !!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lol Labaduba isma dhaamaan. She is a bitch for refusing and he's a lunatic for forcing it.
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Adali wrote: I don't think rape is the accurate word here since they are married to each other, but he definitely forced himself onto her
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The wife denied inventing the allegations as a way of getting her husband out of her life and getting him into trouble.
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Twist wrote:
The wife denied inventing the allegations as a way of getting her husband out of her life and getting him into trouble.
Intaasaa iiga filan sheekadoo dhan!
Yeah, I did a double-take there as well. Though whether or not this particular story is true doesn't take from the fact this is a reality.

A no is a no. Your wife continues to say no, get a new one.
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Alphanumeric wrote:
Twist wrote:
The wife denied inventing the allegations as a way of getting her husband out of her life and getting him into trouble.
Intaasaa iiga filan sheekadoo dhan!
Yeah, I did a double-take there as well. Though whether or not this particular story is true doesn't take from the fact this is a reality.

A no is a no. Your wife continues to say no, get a new one.
Or just be patient with her just like she would have been with you.Do you think there are men who say YES everytime their wife wants? i dont think so.We all humans not mashins and there are times pple are not up for it.Just because you got married dont expect you will get it everytime you want to.
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