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For as long as I could remember I have admired this guy who lived in my neighborhood.

He has it all beauty , brains , a job , Deen , and did I mention looks?

He use to work out at this fitness center I've started going to and for hours I watch him as I run admiring not only his beauty but also everything I know about him

To my surprise couple of months back he had sent me a message and I swear my jumped a beat - never have I wanted a man like I wanted him.

We talked for days fbookig eachother back and forth and eventually exchanging digits that was the best day of my life after all the other amazing things I've been through

But as time moved on and me not showing my hint that I have a thing for him our connection of texting eachother had stopped.

The sad thing is I have a thing for him and have had it since 6 years ago. I know he is not seeing anyone but me never telling a guy how I feel about him am nervous as heck

Not only that but I believe a woman should never have to say how she feels to a man UNTIL he says it first then she may say it as much as she wants

anywho I am this is my rant what would you all advice me to do?

Not only that but I believe a woman should never have to say how she feels to a man UNTIL he says it first then she may say it as much as she wants

You believe this, but then you're mad at yourself for not saying anything. Weird. Also, best day of your life was when you got the dude's number? C'mon.

I am going to assume that this is indeed a sincere concern. Here's my advice for you, keep it real with him. You sound too grown to be playing the ' you go first' games.

Keyblade wrote:

Not only that but I believe a woman should never have to say how she feels to a man UNTIL he says it first then she may say it as much as she wants

You believe this, but then you're mad at yourself for not saying anything. Weird. Also, best day of your life was when you got the dude's number? C'mon.

yes actually it was
coming from someone who had never had any physical contact with a guy let alone talk to a guy - it was like receiving my first kiss - which that is still yet to come inshallah

anywho i am not mad at myself because of my beliefs but just ranting on

eliteSomali wrote:I am going to assume that this is indeed a sincere concern. Here's my advice for you, keep it real with him. You sound too grown to be playing the ' you go first' games.

I am too grown for the you go first games laakin to be honest with you as a lady i could never ever in my life step to a grown man and say "listen, I like you." that is just like asking him out to a date. this guy is a mysterious guy I cannot tell whether he likes me or not

kcolbdgabaartii wrote:

Keyblade wrote:

Not only that but I believe a woman should never have to say how she feels to a man UNTIL he says it first then she may say it as much as she wants

You believe this, but then you're mad at yourself for not saying anything. Weird. Also, best day of your life was when you got the dude's number? C'mon.

yes actually it was
coming from someone who had never had any physical contact with a guy let alone talk to a guy - it was like receiving my first kiss - which that is still yet to come inshallah

anywho i am not mad at myself because of my beliefs but just ranting on

Well, keep doing you then .

Good luck.

kcolbdgabaartii wrote:

Keyblade wrote:

Not only that but I believe a woman should never have to say how she feels to a man UNTIL he says it first then she may say it as much as she wants

You believe this, but then you're mad at yourself for not saying anything. Weird. Also, best day of your life was when you got the dude's number? C'mon.

yes actually it was
coming from someone who had never had any physical contact with a guy let alone talk to a guy - it was like receiving my first kiss - which that is still yet to come inshallah

anywho i am not mad at myself because of my beliefs but just ranting on

I don't think 'Insha Allah' was appropriate in that example. Nah, don't mean to do 'Abakar' on you; just an idea.

Having said that, the fact he contacted you first & the two of you exchanged texts & calls for a while, and your mention that you never talked to a guy let alone physical contact, might mean he had feelings for you but got some mixed messages and thought you are not interested. Without you making yourself too obvious nor telling him your intentions, try to contact him every now and then (since you had exchanged before and it wont be a problem) & one thing might lead to another, you never know.

Twist wrote:
I don't think 'Insha Allah' was appropriate in that example. Nah, don't mean to do 'Abakar' on you; just an idea.

Having said that, the fact he contacted you first & the two of you exchanged texts & calls for a while, and your mention that you never talked to a guy let alone physical contact, might mean he had feelings for you but got some mixed messages and thought you are not interested. Without you making yourself too obvious nor telling him your intentions, try to contact him every now and then (since you had exchanged before and it wont be a problem) & one thing might lead to another, you never know.

twist inabti that is true laakin what are hints exactly? replying back to the text on time? laughing at his corny jokes? smiling when it is appropriate?

what more further hints could I possibly give?

on another thread you said "you're into women" aka lesbian. now you are talking about ur crash on a guy. nayaa u are totally confused at this point. jump off da cliff is the best advice i can offer you.

miskeen86 wrote:on another thread you said "you're into women" aka lesbian. now you are talking about ur crash on a guy. nayaa u are totally confused at this point. jump off da cliff is the best advice i can offer you.

Aboowe why are you following me?
I think it was obvious and straight to the point that when it comes to you - I am gay.
Isku xiishod niina iska dhiig

kcolbdgabaartii wrote:I am into women

you said that in this topic:

viewtopic.php?f=18&t=306173

miskeen86 wrote:

kcolbdgabaartii wrote:I am into women

you said that in this topic:

viewtopic.php?f=18&t=306173

it was a joke
since there was a whole lot of qaanis threads
Laakin you do not understand sarcasm