For those in the west

[Substance]

I been wondering about this today, I hear many people saying that its better to get a girl from home then marry a somali girl in the west. I can understand this argument because some somali girls in the west are hoes, but of course not all somali girls are bad and we should not generalize about them. There are goodfearing somali girls in the west and I will probably try to avoid to bring a girl from home.

Whats your take on this? Will you get a girl from the homeland or try to find one nearby?

[Arabmann]

Whats your take on this? Will you get a girl from the homeland or try to find one nearby?

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[Substance]

Whats your take on this? Will you get a girl from the homeland or try to find one nearby?

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Those threads are locked so thats why I started this thread, I want to dicuss this matter.

[blackstars25]

it would be a personal travesty for me if i ended up with a qaxoti from xamar. we just from different world's, we wouldn't understand each other. i've seen dozens of these type of marriages and NONE have survived.

i don't know really, the somali community is probably the smallest in the west where i live. might be a adoon. pakistani? bosnian? east african? who knows.

[AgentOfChaos]

I seriously doubt Somali girls in the west would want me since I don't have dick made of chocolate that ejaculates money. Sorry girls, look for 100K meher somewhere else.

[Substance]

it would be a personal travesty for me if i ended up with a qaxoti from xamar. we just from different world's, we wouldn't understand each other. i've seen dozens of these type of marriages and NONE have survived.

i don't know really, the somali community is probably the smallest in the west where i live. might be a adoon. pakistani? bosnian? east african? who knows.

For me I think a qaxoti from Somalia(we all are qaxotis) are much closer to me culturewise then a pakstani, bosnian or whatever.
And girls that are brought from home to Europe, those kinda of marriage is whats survives. But to be fair I have not seen many examples of two west-living-somalis marriage.

[blackstars25]

how would you like a wife thats never seen an atm machine?
a wife that doesn't speak english? (while you speak poor somali)
a wife that doesn't know how to drive/use stove, cooking utensils (i've seen this)/or basically think or operate in a modern economy?
a wife that has no education, can't read/write, and has only known conflict and herding sheep?
a wife that doesn't give blowjobs?

and you will be living with this person 24/7 for the rest of your life.

sure you could teach her all this, but that's more work than having two wives.
btw i'm not saying qaxoti women are lesser people in anyway or i'm better than them, but these are just incompatibility issues. marriage to village women looks good to religious folk and on paper, but never works out in reality.

[Substance]

how would you like a wife thats never seen an atm machine?
a wife that doesn't speak english? (while you speak poor somali)
a wife that doesn't know how to drive/use stove, cooking utensils (i've seen this)/or basically think or operate in a modern economy?
a wife that has no education, can't read/write, and has only known conflict and herding sheep?
a wife that doesn't give blowjobs?

sure you could teach her all this, but that's more work than having two wives.
btw i'm not saying qaxoti women are lesser people in anyway or i'm better than them, but these are just incompatibility issues. marriage to village women looks good to religious folk and on paper, but never works out in reality.

Thats not big problems, If I get girl from home I will teach her, and inchange, she will teach me better af soomali and somali culture to my future kids. Bro, You see problems while I see opportunities and besides, if you going for the argument that these kinda of marriage dont hold in reality then you should avoid inter-racial marriage, statically its better to marriage within the group.
But as I said in the opening post that I look for a somali girl that lives in the west, but its nothing wrong imo with a "qaxoti! girl from Somalia.

[blackstars25]

i don't mind not passing somali culture to my kids, i think they'd be better off. somali culture is already flourishing in somalia, but i think i'll leave that behind.

[DANGIRL]

There are plenty of good girls in the west and plenty of hoes back home. But If you can't find any decent girl in the west, the problem may not be them, but you.

[Twist]

how would you like a wife thats never seen an atm machine?
a wife that doesn't speak english? (while you speak poor somali)
a wife that doesn't know how to drive/use stove, cooking utensils (i've seen this)/or basically think or operate in a modern economy?
a wife that has no education, can't read/write, and has only known conflict and herding sheep?
a wife that doesn't give blowjobs?

and you will be living with this person 24/7 for the rest of your life.

sure you could teach her all this, but that's more work than having two wives.
btw i'm not saying qaxoti women are lesser people in anyway or i'm better than them, but these are just incompatibility issues. marriage to village women looks good to religious folk and on paper, but never works out in reality.

Amen to that, brother-man.

And I don't have enough energy to comment on the topic so.......

[Mondey]

girls from middle east

[Substance]

i don't mind not passing somali culture to my kids, i think they'd be better off. somali culture is already flourishing in somalia, but i think i'll leave that behind.

What culture will they have? You know that people need to have a sense of belonging? Dont confuse ur kids.

[Substance]

There are plenty of good girls in the west and plenty of hoes back home. But If you can't find any decent girl in the west, the problem may not be them, but you.

Nice try to spin this..
Did I say I had problem find a decent girl in the west? Why are you in defensive mode?