Two things I recently noticed...
Somali girls raised primarily by their mothers who have such hatred/resentment for Somali men. If you had a bad experiences in your marriage(s) to another Somali I'm sorry but don't pass on your bitterness to the next generation. This especially the case when the girls mother has been married more than once.




Also some habaryar are basically make a Somali dude pay out the ass for the privilege of marrying their precious Ayan, Hibo or Fardosa! They demand a 20,000+ wedding plus a honeymoon and a nice apartment or he can gtfo. Yet the same women will permit her other daughter Amina to marry a bum revert via the masijd for nada.




Thoughts?