misconception of boyfriend/girlfriend in our community

[zulaika]

i talked about this before...and i bring up the subject again only to re-address this constant misconception about "dating" and claiming to have boyfriends/girlfriends in our community....specially when girls in full hijab claim to have boyfriends and in a "committed relationship"...what does that mean?

unless you've gone past first base...you don't have a boyfriend...so these hajabis need to stop loosely throwing around these terms as if it applies to their situation...and if so...please stop wearing the hijab.

there's a difference between talking to someone for marriage prospects and "dating" someone.

my advice for the day!!

[AgentOfChaos]

So dating means sex?

[TeAmo]

Your right sister, when I see hijabies that say they have a boyfriend or in a committed relationship I'm like

Having a boyfriend just leads the way for temptations and that dude your dating will end up leaving you, most guys have the mentality of why marry that when I already hit it. It happened to many girls I know. I'd rather keep my pride and dignity besides you will be known as what's his names ex and your future husband might hear about this.

[Tuushi]

What is the first base?

[greenday]

What is the first base?

Su'alo badnidaa caawo

[Tuushi]

What is the first base?

Su'alo badnidaa caawo

Naqaska ayaan iska bixinayaa. And i am serious with this question.
I never understood the Muslim/Somali dating business.

[Alphanumeric]

I was thinking the same a couple of hours ago.

[Arabmann]

and if so...please stop wearing the hijab.

Are you saying it's better not to wear hijab if one is sinning?

[greenday]

What is the first base?

Su'alo badnidaa caawo

Naqaska ayaan iska bixinayaa. And i am seriously with this question.

I never understood the Muslim/Somali dating business.

Muslims dating/shukansi is from just talking to sina.

[Tuushi]

sheeko cusub.

Xalaal dating majirto miyaa?

She sits 3 feet away and talk?

[Keyblade]

Isn't zina third base, and or am I getting my bases mixed up?

[greenday]

sheeko cusub.

Xalaal dating majirto miyaa?

She sits 3 feet away and talk?

Halal dating you always have someone else present

[Tuushi]

sheeko cusub.

Xalaal dating majirto miyaa?

She sits 3 feet away and talk?

Halal dating you always have someone else present

What is the etiquettes of xalaal dating dictate when it comes where the cheparone stays?

Does it have to be at the same table? Can other diners act as ur cheparones since u r very unlikely to jump each other there.

So many questions.

Zulaika needs to get back here.

[Alphanumeric]

Halal dating is just talking for the purpose of marriage, and agreeing not to engage in the same discussion with anyone else while you two are hashing it out. So long as you're not alone together, doesn't matter who's there. And no touching.

At least that's how it works in my head.

Isn't zina third base, and or am I getting my bases mixed up?

Zina = home base. Hence scoring.

[greenday]

Tuush me thinks with in a hearing distance to stop the macaan words