I personally approve of this video on the grounds that kids should never be exposed to any kinda bajaqnimo as they transition btwn the various stages of childhood. A little harm and a little pain is a must to teach kids that the world is just that.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:35 pm
by Twist
Is it only me or threads related to kids increased rapidly in the last few days? What is this, season of baby-making?
Ciisow, ma curadkii baa soo dhow, sxb?
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:43 pm
by Murax
Its actually very effective. It teaches kids not to be afraid of water, which makes learning hoow to swim later very easy.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:43 pm
by eliteSomali
Twist: ninyahoow curad, sidaan wax u wado, masoo dhowa inshallah. That nigga or chick can come shan sano hada kadib. The reason I made this is because I've noticed the American born maryooles have really grown to become some weak ass niggas man. One short mexican nigga chased out 5 teens last night out here I have been told. All American born somalis, some of them giant as fuck yet quickly dipped. I think it had something to do with that "don't be violent" speeches they got as they grew up. The way you raise little kids is the way they'll behave in their teens and eventually the rest of their lives. I can't stress enough how fucked up it is to raise kids who'll rather turn the other cheek. We have a saying in my family which goes like this "Yaanan adiga kuu ergo gaynin, adiga halagaa so ergoodo"
Dude, that and many other reasons are why I am reluctant to have kids here yet. Ilaah baa umuuraha haya but I am not convinced yet that I want have a family in the West.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Sun Oct 14, 2012 11:54 pm
by eliteSomali
LOOOL. Wallahi ninyahoow a great deal of pussification of the ones born here has been taking place. I fear we might become as docile as white folks who tell you "sorry" when they're walking by you even tho they hadn't done shyt to you. Creating kids in the west isn't really as negative as some make it seem tho. Personally, I don't mind as long as that kid knows that he'll be from America but he'll not be of America. Haduu iswaalo, I'll send his or her as back and I'll go with them for I am looking for excuses to go back myself.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:11 am
by ElfRuler
Poor child!!!
Newly born babies know how to swim pretty well. It's not a big issue. BUT, there is a way to go about it and there has to be some results at the end!!! The baby's head should at least be above the water at the beginning. Kids/adults could float while on their backs. It's not a good idea to turn the child on her stomach since she is more likely to sink. It's also best if an adult is in the pool with the child for support and comfort as well.
These men were doing something completely different. This "tough love" nonsense only creates psychopaths, some callous and emotionless individuals who when ever they see something distressful yell "I've seen worse" or "I have been through something much worse than that".
Mercy is a virtue. Those who try to demean it in the hopes of looking "stronger" only appear more inhumane.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:12 am
by eliteSomali
^ Please don't pussify your brothers, thank you.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:16 am
by ElfRuler
So far machoism hasn't got Somali men anywhere special. Quite the opposite actually. They are at the bottom of the food chain.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:23 am
by Leftist
I think it had something to do with that "don't be violent" speeches they got as they grew up.
It's one thing to be violent in carabaha or somalia where you can fight and beat people up with no legal ramifications; but in the West, there's this little thing called a criminal record which follows you around for life.
Why do you think young blacks have the highest levels of unemployment? The cycle of generational poverty is often kick-started by a single punch thrown. Assault, disorderly conduct, etc. I know quite a few young Somalis who will never get a decent-paying job because of a fight at a club where they just had to prove their manhood.
And the cadaans you're laughing at? they're laughing all the way to the bank. They go out, have a good time and if they bump into a Abdul with something to prove, they'll walk away. And if they do get into a fight, they have the resources to hire the best lawyer to a) get the charges dropped and b) expunge or seal the records. Their career/livelihood isn't impacted.
Gotta outgrow this "im a G" mentality, man.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:29 am
by eliteSomali
Leftist wrote:
I think it had something to do with that "don't be violent" speeches they got as they grew up.
It's one thing to be violent in carabaha or somalia where you can fight and beat people up with no legal ramifications; but in the West, there's this little thing called a criminal record which follows you around for life.
Why do you think young blacks have the highest levels of unemployment? The cycle of generational poverty is often kick-started by a single punch thrown. Assault, disorderly conduct, etc. I know quite a few young Somalis who will never get a decent-paying job because of a fight at a club where they just had to prove their manhood.
And the cadaans you're laughing at? they're laughing all the way to the bank. They go out, have a good time and if they bump into a Abdul with something to prove, they'll walk away. And if they do get into a fight, they have the resources to hire the best lawyer to a) get the charges dropped and b) expunge or seal the records. Their career/livelihood isn't impacted.
Gotta outgrow this "im a G" mentality, man.
Don't get me wrong bruh, I am not encouraging you to raise violent kids. There's a whole lotta gray areas sxb. I am just saying don't raise biiq kids, that doesn't mean you raise violent kids. Raise kids who'll stand their ground when they're wronged. Clearly, you've missed the message.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:32 am
by Keyblade
eliteSomali wrote:
Leftist wrote:
I think it had something to do with that "don't be violent" speeches they got as they grew up.
It's one thing to be violent in carabaha or somalia where you can fight and beat people up with no legal ramifications; but in the West, there's this little thing called a criminal record which follows you around for life.
Why do you think young blacks have the highest levels of unemployment? The cycle of generational poverty is often kick-started by a single punch thrown. Assault, disorderly conduct, etc. I know quite a few young Somalis who will never get a decent-paying job because of a fight at a club where they just had to prove their manhood.
And the cadaans you're laughing at? they're laughing all the way to the bank. They go out, have a good time and if they bump into a Abdul with something to prove, they'll walk away. And if they do get into a fight, they have the resources to hire the best lawyer to a) get the charges dropped and b) expunge or seal the records. Their career/livelihood isn't impacted.
Gotta outgrow this "im a G" mentality, man.
Don't get me wrong bruh, I am not encouraging you to raise violent kids. There's a whole lotta gray areas sxb. I am just saying don't raise biiq kids, that doesn't mean you raise violent kids. Raise kids who'll stand their ground when they're wronged. Clearly, you've missed the message.
Yeah, cause throwing them in a pool during infancy will really drive the message home.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:33 am
by Leftist
eliteSomali wrote:Raise kids who'll stand their ground when they're wronged.
Re: Effective or Ineffective?
Posted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:34 am
by eliteSomali
Whiteboy Keyblade: continue on being a whiteboy, son.