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Why is it so difficult for a woman to get a man to commit? Are men really that picky, that indecisive, that complex that we can’t be locked down? Hell no. The problem is that some women have become so accommodating and submissive to the guys they’re in lust with that they give them the girlfriend experience for free. It’s ironic, females hold all power and will turn down ten niggas in a row who aren’t their type, but when a guy is her type, she gives up her power and melts in his hand. It’s not difficult to get commitment if you show these men that you aren’t going to lay down, praise his ceeb, thirst for his love, and cry for his attention. In short, if you want a man to commit, you have to prove you’re not the same as other girls. It sounds simple, but most women can’t show guys they’re above average because they aren’t. There are women who toot their own horn about how better they are than the average chick. Come nightfall she’s sitting in her bed alone, desperate for a text to come through… just like the average chick. How dare you brag about “shitting on hoes” when you can’t even get the nigga you play house with to give up those hoes you claim to shit on?
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I see now, even in your username. It is clear that all you want is D on the regular. I will offer you mine, out of altruism. With conditions (all central to the promise of an end to these threads). You dig?

Maybe,some women dont want powers,fights and control and are happier with their men being little rogue?

@ black girls are easy.

Do you really think that a man who meets a bad chick isn’t going to handcuff her asap? Be serious, he’s not going to leave her out here in these streets for the next nigga to snatch up if he’s thoroughly impressed. That’s like a sneaker head saying he’ll come back the next day for some retros. Fuck that, you buy them now because your heart and soul demand it! There will be no “taking it slow”, we save that excuse for the mediocre girls. So are you mediocre or are you a bad chick? Let’s break down what a bad chick is. I’m not talking strictly about looks, looks are only part of the formula, and being pretty without substance is the epitome of being unimpressive. To be truly bad means that you are a total package, the likes of which he has never seen before in the average woman he hollas at. It’s your walk, your smile, your wardrobe, and most importantly how you interact with him. The average dude who’s been around the block isn’t impressed by a pretty face alone, he’s fucked J-Lo’s, and their flower feels the same as J-No’s. So what’s going to make her a must have? My favorite word—Personality

I'm book marking this site.

Advise to who exactly, so if you dont give the guy what he wants he will lose interest in you? That article is cearly not suited for muslims ladies.

Negritude wrote:I see now, even in your username. It is clear that all you want is D on the regular. I will offer you mine, out of altruism. With conditions (all central to the promise of an end to these threads). You dig?

Akhass..get lost. This is advise for ladies to not get played. Take ur "D" elsewhere

Tuushi wrote:Maybe,some women dont want powers,fights and control and are happier with their men being little rogue?

He has another blog about that. Its called "you can't do better" or something to that effect. For the women who settle in abusive or broken relationships.

salool wrote:Advise to who exactly, so if you dont give the guy what he wants he will lose interest in you? That article is cearly not suited for muslims ladies.

The advice is to show your personality..don't just look pretty. That to capture the man you want your going have keep you legs closed and show them the incredable person that you are.

"Stop being shy, work through your nerves, and prove that you’re not like the rest. You are too old to be awkward, open your mouth, not your legs, and become the girl he has to have."

A woman should never have to "capture" a grown ass man.

Either he is interested or he is not. This whole notion of "working to get him and keep him" nonsense is beyond lame.


One a serious note. Never take relationship advice from a black man.

ElfRuler wrote:A woman should never have to "capture" a grown ass man.

Either he is interested or he is not. This whole notion of "working to get him and keep him" nonsense is beyond lame.


One a serious note. Never take relationship advice from a black man.

Thats the whole point...today's relationships come in diff forms; you have lovers, friends with benefit, booty call and so on. Lakiin, these are such time wasters and not to forget HARAM. So rather than fall into this trap set up by guys. Its best to read up on their strategies and avoid it!

Also the difference between guys and girls is that when a girl is not interested in the men, she will let him know or cut it off. BUT men, will keep a girl around so longs as it suits them..filling their miskeen heads with lies.

I just think its better for girls to be aware so they can safe guard themselves from the games.

I couldn't agree more. It does help to read how they operate.They tend to be predictable and entertaining.

ElfRuler wrote:

One a serious note. Never take relationship advice from a black man.

ElfRuler wrote:A woman should never have to "capture" a grown ass man.

Either he is interested or he is not. This whole notion of "working to get him and keep him" nonsense is beyond lame.


One a serious note. Never take relationship advice from a black man.

how does a man become "interested"? is this not a form of "capturing"

Admin can u move this topic to muslim sisters, pls?

zulaika wrote:

ElfRuler wrote:A woman should never have to "capture" a grown ass man.

Either he is interested or he is not. This whole notion of "working to get him and keep him" nonsense is beyond lame.


One a serious note. Never take relationship advice from a black man.

how does a man become "interested"? is this not a form of "capturing"

Sometimes we are honestly interested in someone for who they are and not the entertainment they provide.

SelfDiscovery wrote:Admin can u move this topic to muslim sisters, pls?

Where is this "Muslim sisters forum located?