should I be concerned?

[daiman]

This old guy in my neighbourhood seems to target me....he has been saying hello to me for over a year...but now whenever the opportunity arises he graps me. I have no idea why someone would come to me that close. I ignore him so he would stop saying hello. But then he would come up to me in the waitrose or sainsbury somewhere. today he suddenly squeezed my arm that it hurt...and he said ' OK, young lady'.

I do not know how to stop him talking to me?

I think he thinks I am a teenager...something about him makes me feel that way.

a year ago, someone stopped me and said that he knows me and that Iworked with him. I am sure I did not. He then said ' take my number and we can meet for drink or something'. He told me that he came nearby place to carry some ingineering work. He had a lot of stuff with him. I just run.

do you think these men think I am a teenager and that they are some kind of pervert?
Now, as the winter started I scare to go out at night walee.

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Tan waa the SAHAL version.

[daiman]

are you sareedoxareedo?

[SultanOrder]

The guy could try to rape you. Everytime you don't give him a serious reaction, he thinks that you might like him or even want him. You have to tell him that you do not want to see him and that next time he even says hi you will can the police for harassment. Men like these want to believe you like them or want them, so they will consider everything thing you do or don't do as a sign of liking them, best thing to do is be serious and clear in how you feel.

[grandpakhalif]

Stop hugging gay men.

[daiman]

PO, walalo thanks.


I think the guy thinks i am a teenager or something like that...and Ifear that he is pervert. He is over 70 definetly. He is not rought looking though. I tried hard to avoid him but sometimes appears from nowhere.

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Tan she gon end up on the 5'o clock news.

[SultanOrder]

Is he somali?

[Rabshoole]

Daiman, meeye walaalahadi ka weyna ? ama adigu uun weeye reerkinaan oo dhan ?

[daiman]

Stop hugging gay men.

I do not hug them on a regular bases. I just hug them when their is something going on like I am praised with something at work place. Other men do not come near them but gay men are touchy feeling ( at least my co-workers). another Muslim woman ( Bangoli) and I disucced about the matter....and we came to the conclusion that 'they are no men' so we should not overstress about the hugging when it happens.


OK GP. Do not change the subject of the thread. It is quick one so i will let it die soon.

[KingBlack]

Stop hugging gay men.

I do not hug them on a regular bases. I just hug them when their is something going on like I am praised with something at work place. Other men do not come near them but gay men are touchy feeling ( at least my co-workers). another Muslim woman ( Bangoli) and I disucced about the matter....and we came to the conclusion that 'they are no men' so we should not overstress about the hugging when it happens.


OK GP. Do not change the subject of the thread. It is quick one so i will let it die soon.

Emperior stop ur lies ok stop acting like a girl daiman = The_Emperior

[Rabshoole]

Just have one of your older male siblings or male cousins to tell them to piss off otherwise, They'll receive a knucktuna for lunch. That should handle your minor dilemma

[Advo]

That old man is rich and wants to be ur sonkor aabo, I am sure u could use a lil help in paying rent or that new purse u had ur eye on.

Besides @77 u shouldn't feel threaten both sexually or physically, the most he will do is taabtaabsho which is not a big deal.


Diaman quit exaggerating.

[daiman]

PO, he is white. Old man.


Rabshole, my brothers do not live over here. My brothers do not live in Europe. I have my ina-abti who lived with me but now is married...she still comes over as she still ahs the key. I had my aunt ( eedo) who brought me over here but she got married 5 years ago and moved to the USA.


OK, close the subject. I just feared that this guy might harm me or something as I sometimes leave or come in quite late at night.

[daiman]

That old man is rich and wants to be ur sonkor aabo, I am sure u could use a lil help in paying rent or that new purse u had ur eye on.

Besides @77 u shouldn't feel threaten both sexually or physically, the most he will do is taabtaabsho which is not a big deal.


Diaman quit exaggerating.