Question about marrying a second wife
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Question about marrying a second wife
Let's say you want to get married soon. Would you tell your wife to be about your intentions of marrying a second wife down the road? I know it's the right thing morally, but how about Islmaically?
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times. 

Re: Question about marrying a second wife
What do you think Salool? There are a lot of new people in here who missed thatsalool wrote:Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times.
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
BlackRain wrote:Let's say you want to get married soon. Would you tell your wife to be about your intentions of marrying a second wife down the road? I know it's the right thing morally, but how about Islmaically?
No, do not tell her. She does not have to know that unless you are planning to do that within a week or so!
some guys told me their intention about taking a second wife and I was furious about it.
I think( from my experience) that you have already talking to the second wife-to-be. Because that is what those guys revealed to me afterwards.
Plus you have to buy guchi stuff for them not from the ebay
Re: Question about marrying a second wife
daiman wrote:BlackRain wrote:Let's say you want to get married soon. Would you tell your wife to be about your intentions of marrying a second wife down the road? I know it's the right thing morally, but how about Islmaically?
No, do not tell her. She does not have to know that unless you are planning to do that within a week or so!
some guys told me their intention about taking a second wife and I was furious about it.
I think( from my experience) that you have already talking to the second wife-to-be. Because that is what those guys revealed to me afterwards.
[b]Plus you have to buy guchi stuff for ... e ebay[/b]

Re: Question about marrying a second wife
so...... you're not even married yet, and you want a second wife? 

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What i think about this? first get married horta and find out what is this marriage thing is all about.Marka ka bacdi beynu eegi inaad xabad kale taag oo haysid iyo in kale.BlackRain wrote:What do you think Salool? There are a lot of new people in here who missed thatsalool wrote:Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times.
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
Once this big Sheikh died in a city I used to live years ago and a few ladies came forward claiming to be his wife so they can get what they thought they rightfully deserved as a widow. 2 of them were international (Sweden and Kenya) while the other 2 were in his city. None of them knew they were his 2nd, 3rd and 4th wife and the 1st wife thought she was in a monogamous relationship with him the whole time. He's a pretty well known Sheikh too so I won't reveal his identity.
If a Sheikh can get away with it, so can you.
If a Sheikh can get away with it, so can you.
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
salool wrote:Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times.

wa xiligi dhiigu kugu kici jirey. is deji ayeyo waa iska xaal aduun laba habeen la soo wada xereya imika raggii wey tegeen.
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
Good luck with that
just hope she dnt mess u up when they find out 


Re: Question about marrying a second wife
LIke you have an opions. Are you against what allah allowed?AishahWaqooyi wrote:Good luck with thatjust hope she dnt mess u up when they find out

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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
naa he can his marry 4 wives after a fuck him up and get a divorce 

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Re: Question about marrying a second wife
BlackRain wrote:LIke you have an opions. Are you against what allah allowed?AishahWaqooyi wrote:Good luck with thatjust hope she dnt mess u up when they find out
Allah didn't make it obligatory upon women to be in polygamous marriages.
You probably don't have the slights clue as to what "Allah" (Show some respect and use a capital "A") allowed, especially when it comes to marriage.
But, yeah, May Allah bless you with four wives.

Re: Question about marrying a second wife
You be in jail cell and I be waving at youAishahWaqooyi wrote:naa he can his marry 4 wives after a fuck him up and get a divorce

Re: Question about marrying a second wife
AishahWaqooyi wrote:naa he can his marry 4 wives after a fuck him up and get a divorce

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