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Question about marrying a second wife

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Let's say you want to get married soon. Would you tell your wife to be about your intentions of marrying a second wife down the road? I know it's the right thing morally, but how about Islmaically?
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Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times. :down:
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salool wrote:Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times. :down:
What do you think Salool? There are a lot of new people in here who missed that
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BlackRain wrote:Let's say you want to get married soon. Would you tell your wife to be about your intentions of marrying a second wife down the road? I know it's the right thing morally, but how about Islmaically?

No, do not tell her. She does not have to know that unless you are planning to do that within a week or so!

some guys told me their intention about taking a second wife and I was furious about it.

I think( from my experience) that you have already talking to the second wife-to-be. Because that is what those guys revealed to me afterwards.


Plus you have to buy guchi stuff for them not from the ebay
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daiman wrote:
BlackRain wrote:Let's say you want to get married soon. Would you tell your wife to be about your intentions of marrying a second wife down the road? I know it's the right thing morally, but how about Islmaically?

No, do not tell her. She does not have to know that unless you are planning to do that within a week or so!

some guys told me their intention about taking a second wife and I was furious about it.

I think( from my experience) that you have already talking to the second wife-to-be. Because that is what those guys revealed to me afterwards.


[b]Plus you have to buy guchi stuff for ... e ebay[/b]
:wtf: very much confused
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so...... you're not even married yet, and you want a second wife? :mindblown:
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BlackRain wrote:
salool wrote:Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times. :down:
What do you think Salool? There are a lot of new people in here who missed that
What i think about this? first get married horta and find out what is this marriage thing is all about.Marka ka bacdi beynu eegi inaad xabad kale taag oo haysid iyo in kale.
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Once this big Sheikh died in a city I used to live years ago and a few ladies came forward claiming to be his wife so they can get what they thought they rightfully deserved as a widow. 2 of them were international (Sweden and Kenya) while the other 2 were in his city. None of them knew they were his 2nd, 3rd and 4th wife and the 1st wife thought she was in a monogamous relationship with him the whole time. He's a pretty well known Sheikh too so I won't reveal his identity.

If a Sheikh can get away with it, so can you.
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salool wrote:Ah not this again, this topic has been abused to many times. :down:
:lol:
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife

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Good luck with that :up: just hope she dnt mess u up when they find out :up:
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife

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AishahWaqooyi wrote:Good luck with that :up: just hope she dnt mess u up when they find out :up:
LIke you have an opions. Are you against what allah allowed? :steviej:
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naa he can his marry 4 wives after a fuck him up and get a divorce :ufdup:
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife

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BlackRain wrote:
AishahWaqooyi wrote:Good luck with that :up: just hope she dnt mess u up when they find out :up:
LIke you have an opions. Are you against what allah allowed? :steviej:

Allah didn't make it obligatory upon women to be in polygamous marriages.


You probably don't have the slights clue as to what "Allah" (Show some respect and use a capital "A") allowed, especially when it comes to marriage.

But, yeah, May Allah bless you with four wives. :mrgreen:
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Re: Question about marrying a second wife

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AishahWaqooyi wrote:naa he can his marry 4 wives after a fuck him up and get a divorce :ufdup:
You be in jail cell and I be waving at you :ufdup:
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AishahWaqooyi wrote:naa he can his marry 4 wives after a fuck him up and get a divorce :ufdup:
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