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Domestic violence

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To get involved or not to?

My neighbours for the last two days have been at each other’s throat. Yesterday as I was getting ready to go out I hear yelling, swearing and loud banging on wall, so I just ignore it. Three hours later as I come home they are still fighting, at this moment I’m getting a bit freaked out and seriously considering calling the cops. This morning I wake up and they are still fighting, I wouldn’t mind if it was only yelling but that’s not the case. It’s so sad they are a friendly couple and are the only neighbours I talk to. :|

I’m torn if I call the cops I think they would know because we are the closest neighbours to them and what happens if they make up tomorrow, I will look like the bad guy who caused more trouble. At the same time I feel sorry for the lady she is petite and can’t imagine what she is going through (even though I think she is stupid for still being there).

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Re: Domestic violence

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Call the cops.
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can u here tha hitin motion?
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Re: Domestic violence

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AgentOfChaos wrote:Call the cops.
My conscious is telling me to call the cops but my fulayimo is telling me dont get involved. I might leave the house and then call the cops that way im not at home whenthe cops arrive.
igotkatzngingersnapz wrote:can u here tha hitin motion?
I can hear banging but I cant say 100% that he is hitting her laakin there is noise.
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Re: Domestic violence

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definitely call the cops...If something bad were to happen, your conscience won't let you live it down
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You should befriend her and maybe she'll open up. Or inspect her behaviour,body language and if she has any scars. If she flinches when you get near her or has bruises or looks and sounds distressed, disturbed, abused. If so then CALL THE COPS! I read a book about a women who used to get beaten by her husband and it wasn't nice inside they crave for help but act tough on the outside.
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Re: Domestic violence

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XaliimoFarax wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:Call the cops.
My conscious is telling me to call the cops but my fulayimo is telling me dont get involved. I might leave the house and then call the cops that way im not at home whenthe cops arrive.
igotkatzngingersnapz wrote:can u here tha hitin motion?
I can hear banging but I cant say 100% that he is hitting her laakin there is noise.
play it safe n call tha cops. dont giv info that cld identify tha caller as sum1 who evan livs nearby tho, sayin for ex "a lotta noisans is comin from dat haus n has bin 4 hrs it sounds heated am nt sure if ther is violens bt i can hear banging" wld b best.

snitch boo :up:
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XaliimoFarax wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:Call the cops.
My conscious is telling me to call the cops but my fulayimo is telling me dont get involved. I might leave the house and then call the cops that way im not at home whenthe cops arrive.
That's a good idea.
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Re: Domestic violence

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I'm home alone, I can't directly get involved. :|
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Re: Domestic violence

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There is nothing more I hate than white alcoholic families screaming at each other and banging doors.
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Re: Domestic violence

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What is their ethnic?
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mahad9of9 wrote:What is their ethnic?
waa cadaan.
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Siciid85 wrote:There is nothing more I hate than white alcoholic families screaming at each other and banging doors.
White Trash!
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Re: Domestic violence

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I hate getting involved in the affairs of other people unless I'm certain that shit is going to hit the fan. The last thing you want is a crazy cadaan neighbor to go apeshit on his wife and in the process kill you because you live so close.



Call the cops. Or tell the neighbor that makes it their business to know everyone else's business. :D
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Re: Domestic violence

Post by DonCorleone »

If they have kids you should call the police!

The kids could be in danger

call the police from a Pay phone if you are afraid of the neighbours going after you.

you should leave a letter by their house saying they should break up or stop fighting or something.
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