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If You ladies knew the Woman Your Husband took as a 2nd Wife, would You wanna fight Her or could You be civil with Her?

I would be civil with her. I mean I wouldn't want my husband to get a second wife but if he did and I couldn't do anything about it and was in a situation where I was forced to stay. Then I'd be civil with her. No point of fighting and arguing. I'll become friends with her if anything. We can help each other baby sit etc.. That way our children would be closer, they are siblings after all.

Euphoriia wrote:I would be civil with her. I mean I wouldn't want my husband to get a second wife but if he did and I couldn't do anything about it and was in a situation where I was forced to stay. Then I'd be civil with her. No point of fighting and arguing. I'll become friends with her if anything. We can help each other baby sit etc.. That way our children would be closer, they are siblings after all.

Wow, Your patience is def uncommon.

















































btw, thanks for giving me some very nice selling points

Murax you dead beat Somali father, one wife is good for you.













If 0 makes you a al-shaabi qhat chewer, what about 2?

hydrogen wrote:Murax you dead beat Somali father, one wife is good for you.

If 0 makes you a al-shaabi qhat chewer, what about 2?

At least You're a funny troll

What did the other do to me? Chances are,she had no idea i existed either until then.if i wanna have beef,it will be with him and will be civil with her.

if that arrangement isnt working,the exit is there.

Tuushi wrote:What did the other do to me? Chances are,she had no idea i existed either until then.if i wanna have beef,it will be with him and will be civil with her.

if that arrangement isnt working,the exit is there.

Exactly chances are she didn't know either so we're the victims in all this. And if there is anyone worthy of fighting with and taking anger out on, it would be him

Murax wrote:If You ladies knew the Woman Your Husband took as a 2nd Wife, would You wanna fight Her or could You be civil with Her?

Maxaa naagta ii geenaya maan isaga saliid karkareysa madaxa kaga shubo.

salool wrote:

Murax wrote:If You ladies knew the Woman Your Husband took as a 2nd Wife, would You wanna fight Her or could You be civil with Her?

Maxaa naagta ii geenaya maan isaga saliid karkareysa madaxa kaga shubo.

burning his face and ruining his life for good ? they don't even do that to rapist, child molesters etc why would you do that to someone who you love/loved and may have children with, maskax la'aan.

Murax wrote:If You ladies knew the Woman Your Husband took as a 2nd Wife, would You wanna fight Her or could You be civil with Her?

There would be no fight or anger towards the new wife...he just broke the first marriage.

I wouldn't fight with her. Instead I would shift my anger towards him.

Pardon me Murax for the random question I am about to ask you...

If your significant other (wife) fell in love with another woman and has a zero love for you, what would you do? Would you be civil & try to convince your wife to come back or pull the hair of the other woman?

Unless you're some semi literate Somali or Khaleeji oday or a recovering sex addict who can't bear the thought of being tied down to one woman for the rest of his life , I don't understand why you would even concern yourself with this topic?

Navy9 wrote:Pardon me Murax for the random question I am about to ask you...

If your significant other (wife) fell in love with another woman and has a zero love for you, what would you do? Would you be civil & try to convince your wife to come back or pull the hair of the other woman?

I think You meant fell in love with another Man right?

In that case, that means the marriage is broken, its too late. Personally, ofcourse I understand why no Woman would be okay with their Man marrying another Wife. My Grandad had a lot, and I always observed the siblings (My Aunts/Uncs) that do not have the same mother are not particularly close and in some cases have huge rivalries and bitterness for each other. For that reason, for me the juice is not worth the squeeze by having a dysfunctional family who will grow up resenting each other.

No, i wrote another woman on purpose...just keeping up with your question scenario (2 women and a man)



Anyway, the point I was trying to make you have already answered...

Men...women...our feelings are the same, so we shouldnt harm other peoples' feelings and we should always be respectful of one another even if we do not view things the same way.