Having a girlfriend and a definition of a girlfriend? dilemm

[ZubeirAwal]

Ok so I have this dilemma. In college I tend to hang with a group of friends, mostly dudes, and we all discuss common things such as football, music, college etc.. Now one of my friends incorperated a girl into our group, and this girl is not all open but silent, i.e shy. She just used to follow us around and stuff. She took all of our skypes, so yes lemme cut to the chase. She apparently 'likes' me, I blame myself because I'm generally a generous kind guy but at the same time I can be the class clown at times, and when it comes to girls they believe I like them when I have a basic conversation with them, so she told me she made a bet with her sister that if she'd get a boyfriend she'll give her £5, and then she messages me " I gave her £5 cuz I lost the bet xD",and I replied? " Who's the boyfriend?" and she just went " You " at that moment I knew she had taken me for a boyfriend, and the thing is, this girl is not bad-looking at all, she's lithuanian , has a slim figure , nice long hair, beautiful smile. It has got me thinking for a while and i knew I would never go as far as zina, she's born in my year and is a virgin. My nafs and my mind are telling me two things, 1 shes a catch, and 2 If i were to let her go i would be stupid. The dilemma is, if I were to get out of this situation how would I? And if i were to maintain this howv would i?

[metamorphosis]

How old are you?

[Advo]

Get out while u can, women are fitna breh

[AgentOfChaos]

Ask Hamza Yusuf.

[zamindawari]

Brother, the entire structure of this situation is steeped in the harami social structure of mixed gender schooling of the west. It is haram that you engage in unnecessary personal interaction with this non-mahram female, especially with full knowledge that it is leading into an illegal relationship! You must tell her that you have already crossed boundaries that should have never been crossed and by Islam that you can not proceed any further in this direction. Beyond this, it is advisable that you end any future interactions with this specific individual due to the history that has already been established between the two of you.

[ZubeirAwal]

Zamid, It's not as easy as it sounds.she could be a xaaaaaaass if you know what I mean

[ZubeirAwal]

How old are you?

Sideed iyo toban jir ban laba bilood sii noqonaya

[AgentOfChaos]

How old are you?

Sideed iyo toban jir ban laba bilood sii noqonaya

[ZubeirAwal]

I afraid someone was gonna laugh, for some reason you niccas don't believe me, I'm telling the truth Agent

[Barwaaqoiyobashbash]

Ask Hamza Yusuf.

How old are you?

Sideed iyo toban jir ban laba bilood sii noqonaya

[MujahidAishah]

How old are you?

Sideed iyo toban jir ban laba bilood sii noqonaya

war yaa Muslim ah oo afkaan fahmaya

[ZubeirAwal]

How old are you?

Sideed iyo toban jir ban laba bilood sii noqonaya

war yaa Muslim ah oo afkaan fahmaya

Doesn't it mean I'm turning 18 in 2 months?

[MujahidAishah]

No walal thats why ppl r laughing at u

You use sii when you going somewhere waxa sii qaabo. . Waan sii soconaya

To make the sentence right u say laba bilood baa iga hartay 18jiir

[salool]

Kan yar waxan moodayey wadaade waa maxay GF iyo wa yaalahn oo ka hadlaya

[BlackVelvet]

This could be a test, a beautiful girl putting herself right there in front of you. What do you do as a Muslim?