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Came to the crib last night with my niece to spend the night over.
Upon coming to the crib, lady of the house asks "what's poppin" in a resenting way.
I, being, Mr. easy going, had to explain to her she was gonna spend the night with us.
After my explanation, i was met with, "where is she suppose to crash and i don't think so".
Keep in mind my niece could hear err thang and right there.


Shocked and in disbelieve, i took my nieece to another crib.

Would i be naive to end my relationship with this chick who mothered kids of mine?
I am leaning towards letting her go, but the thought of another dude being father figure
to my kids is killin me.

HAS SHE CROSSED A LINE HERE?

You can't divorce her over that lol even though it is rude, it's not that big of an issue. You need to ask her why she acted that way, maybe she's got a problem with you and she took it out on your niece.

i'm doing err thang 4 her peepz on a daily basis but she acted this way towards my peeps who needed me once ever since i settled down.

Xisaabtu meel bay ka qaldantahay

Ask her why she acted in that way. If it is pure kibir then you probably know how to deal with it without resorting to divorce, reer snet way ku waalayane kuma siinayaan advice.

If your considering divorce, its probably already over bar the shouting.

Thats disgusting. .. She has no respect.

like you don`t` do the same if its Dhullies.....gtfo here iidoor.

original dervish wrote:like you don`t` do the same if its Dhullies.....gtfo here iidoor.

No son my aayo is dhulies I treat her with respect. .. If that was you id take you to dog shelter

This doesnt warrant a divorce.... Yet. Tell her to cut it out and if she repeats this again let her go. If you are making a lot money or have a lot of saving rearrange some of that first.

zingii how can a biij boss u around like that. ninyahow isku xishood how the hell can u take ur niece to a otha house

Talk to her, she could've had a bad day, get to the root of this problem, and sort out who's in control, from the sound of it, she wears the pants, zingi get your pants back son.

Did you expect her to agree with every decision you make by yourself? You shouldn't have ambushed her like that in the first place, you should have told her in advance, hell you should have made her part of your decision making.

Cut her. That was incredibly disrespectful to your niece. No family member deserves to be disrespected in such a way. She should have spoken to you privately.

Your niece, uhm you need to figure out what the hell happened. It's not even dhaqan to turn away people let alone blood releation.

FarIyoAlif wrote:Ask her why she acted in that way. If it is pure kibir then you probably know how to deal with it without resorting to divorce, reer snet way ku waalayane kuma siinayaan advice.

As it turns out, my other half felt threatened as the niece was of legal age and adult.
I guess it her way of protecting her territory.

I almost pulled the trigger that would have ended it all.