Guys - Not interested vs. Playing hard to get

[BlackVelvet]

Is it your natural (male) instinct to expect a "not interested" and then try to change a girl's mind?

Can you tell the difference between the two? When do you back off?

[eliteSomali]

Someone made a mistake by giving a nigga the not interested look, n now she's realize she'd a mistake.

[BlackVelvet]

Elite, is that the plan? Make her realise it was a mistake?

[Tuushi]

Human huh.

There is no winning Black.

[eliteSomali]

BV: Now are you are probably praying for him to approach you again.

[AgentOfChaos]

Honestly I can't tell one from the other, I'm oblivious to those signals (or whatever the hell it's called), I just don't understand them.

[BlackVelvet]

Tuushi Women like to be chased apparently but sadly it's almost always by the ones they don't want.

BV: Now are you are probably praying for him to approach you again.

You have no idea, I am not the deer. I am never the deer

[Tuushi]

This is a game whose rules change every moment.

I bet it is not easy to find the balance.It is even more confusing when chicks carry a label regardless.Either playing hard to get or too easy of a chick.

[BlackVelvet]

Honestly I can't tell one from the other, I'm oblivious to those signals (or whatever the hell it's called), I just don't understand them.

I was going to point out the difference and say if a girl flirts with you then says no, then she's playing hard to get. BUT that is not always true, especially if you are a big time flirt, she could just be playing along. Lakin in general, if she doesn't look like she's interested she's not. At least that is how I think it works.

[eliteSomali]

BV: Some men have unlocked the secrets to summon women at will. The normal routine goes something like this: She is used to being chased, so she'll expect you to chase her, you chase her, she'll keep playing all sorts of games. Now reverse this process which goes something like this: Stop chasing her, she'll think WTF n the roles will be switched.

[PrinceDaadi]

Women! They are complicated creature, the funny thing is most of the time they don't know what they want or they say opposite of they want!

[BlackVelvet]

This is a game whose rules change every moment.

I bet it is not easy to find the balance.It is even more confusing when chicks carry a label regardless.Either playing hard to get or too easy of a chick.

I really am not sure I understand what exactly it means to play hard to get in the first place. Dhib Ilaahey ku galinin maxaa isku galiney lol

[eliteSomali]

Women! They are complicated creature, the funny thing is most of the time they don't know what they want or they opposite of they want!

[BlackVelvet]

BV: Some men have unlocked the secrets to summon women at will. The normal routine goes something like this: She is used to being chased, so she'll expect you to chase her, you chase her, she'll keep playing all sorts of games. Now reverse this process which goes something like this: Stop chasing her, she'll think WTF n the roles will be switched.

I know!!! "I'll call you at such and such" and you're thinking why are you going to call me? Who asked you? Then subconsciously it's in your mind that you are to expect a call, even though you don't want to speak to them

Mind games But thank God for number block

[Tuushi]

This is a game whose rules change every moment.

I bet it is not easy to find the balance.It is even more confusing when chicks carry a label regardless.Either playing hard to get or too easy of a chick.

I really am not sure I understand what exactly it means to play hard to get in the first place. Dhib Ilaahey ku galinin maxaa isku galiney lol

Some people love the attention,the whole idea of someone being interested in them.That idea of being wanted/needed.Someone graveling for their attention.Feeds their ego.My understanding.While that would annoy someone who didnt play their game,others live for it.

Exactly what i feel like.Why put urself in tht situation intentionally.