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So here is the siutation

I went to Kenya in summer of 2011 and visited the family..met a bunch of cousins edos and atheers and ayeeyo

Anyways I just finished school Uni recently and got a job (alhamdulilah)

Also around this time for the past couple months one of the cousins that I met starting calling me one day..and it was cool at first you know
to hear how things are going in Kenya...and then the calls became daily like everyday at least 10 times and atleast 10 texts to go along with those
calls..(mind you this part of my family lives in badio) ..kind of funny how every single person as a celly or mobile as they say

Long story short she is talking about jaceel and she hiting me with some poetry " aboowe an isbarano"
I tried telling her that I am not interested...but it hasen't stopped ..everyday.like clockwork

I have no sisters so shes kinda like my sister.Dad's sisters daughter..I love her in that way..

I find the whole situation awkward...

What would you do? advice ....an easy let down in somali would be helpful

tell them to screw off

Marry her, there is worldly and hereafter xasanaat in it for you. You would be taking care of own. Think of it like that.

Franchesco wrote: " aboowe an isbarano"

Until this point I thought you were a girl.

You are a way out of baadiyo. If first cousin marriage doesn't disgust you then marry her.

WestLdnShawty wrote:If you aint ganna marry her.. give her a monthly allowance..

Or this

Long story short she is talking about jaceel and she hiting me with some poetry " aboowe an isbarano"

Can you post some of those poetry? So we can understand how deeply in love she is with you. Badio love poetry

BlackVelvet wrote:If first cousin marriage doesn't disgust you then marry her.

Why does it disgusts you?

Your abti/adeer, eedo/habar yar's kids are like your siblings. At least mine are. Yuck just the idea is making me feel sick.

Nacaskan inaadeertii xamanaya daya.

BlackVelvet wrote:Your abti/adeer, eedo/habar yar's kids are like your siblings. At least mine are. Yuck just the idea is making me feel sick.

If that's how it's to you, then keep it to yourself. Millions of Muslims get married like that, and you would be disrespecting them and their faith for airing your view about it.

Marry her, I certainly would.

Franchesco wrote:So here is the siutation

I went to Kenya in summer of 2011 and visited the family..met a bunch of cousins edos and atheers and ayeeyo

Anyways I just finished school Uni recently and got a job (alhamdulilah)

Also around this time for the past couple months one of the cousins that I met starting calling me one day..and it was cool at first you know
to hear how things are going in Kenya...and then the calls became daily like everyday at least 10 times and atleast 10 texts to go along with those
calls..(mind you this part of my family lives in badio) ..kind of funny how every single person as a celly or mobile as they say

Long story short she is talking about jaceel and she hiting me with some poetry " aboowe an isbarano"
I tried telling her that I am not interested...but it hasen't stopped ..everyday.like clockwork

I have no sisters so shes kinda like my sister.Dad's sisters daughter..I love her in that way..

I find the whole situation awkward...

What would you do? advice ....an easy let down in somali would be helpful

Is it only me or does this struck anybody else as odd that some new dude pops out of no where and asks a question so intimate in nature in a public forum? I just cannot shake the persistent feeling that this lad a seasoned troller with a new alias.

Responsor her. (no strings attached)

misterioso wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:Your abti/adeer, eedo/habar yar's kids are like your siblings. At least mine are. Yuck just the idea is making me feel sick.

If that's how it's to you, then keep it to yourself. Millions of Muslims get married like that, and you would be disrespecting them and their faith for airing your view about it.

misterioso wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote:If first cousin marriage doesn't disgust you then marry her.

Why does it disgusts you?

Aren't you the one who asked?

Basra- wrote:Responsor her. (no strings attached)

I Co-sign.
Thats what she wants. Just do it. End of problems.