1) You spend so much energy on Children that do not consider you any relative of yours. They will always talking about their dad this and their dad that while you are working to raise them.
2) There is always family problems and Disputes between the Mother and the step dad about what kids said and what was done to them.
3) You have to deal with the ex-husband who will always be loitering around your house wanting to "see his chidlren".
4) You have to live with the public critism of nin caruurtiis ayuu koriyaah bla bla bla
6) If you divorce their mother after raising them for 20 years, You are just nobody to them.
Allah hanaga haayo naag caruur wadato aamiin dhaha
I don't mind marrying a woman who have had kids but she they either should be aborted or died at a young age.
