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so was using facebook and came accross this chick that was absolutely beautiful, so have visited her profile few times since coming accross her but i want to add her without coming accross as online stalker okay i had few peeks sometimes. we have no mutual friends on facebook so does it look too obivious how you find me question. i want to come accross normal

ever been this situation should just poke her anwyays please help

I ignore pokes from people I don't know and find it a bit creepy. So she most likely won't respond to it or might ignore a poke.

Maybe join one group she's active in (if you're interested in that group, no use feigning interest) and get active in that group too but just don't be too zealous. Then occasionally respond to posts she makes in that group and make sure you don't answer hers more than others'. Over time, if you become somewhat familiar, send her a message about something she wrote that might result in a conversation. But be sure you're not too invasive (like asking her where she lives, how old she is, and other personal things). Just be casual and let it be if she doesn't respond. This way, you might strike up a friendship and later might add each other. But, to be honest, there is a very small chance this would work. But I can't think of any other way that might work. Besides, facebook crushes are shallow (you know nothing much about her except what she looks like) and therefore your interest in her is shallow. So since there is no deeper reason for your interest in her, I don't think there's much to strive for here.

CushiticReflections wrote:I ignore pokes from people I don't know and find it a bit creepy. So she most likely won't respond to it or might ignore a poke.

Maybe join one group she's active in (if you're interested in that group, no use feigning interest) and get active in that group too but just don't be too zealous. Then occasionally respond to posts she makes in that group and make sure you don't answer hers more than others'. Over time, if you become somewhat familiar, send her a message about something she wrote that might result in a conversation. But be sure you're not too invasive (like asking her where she lives, how old she is, and other personal things). Just be casual and let it be if she doesn't respond. This way, you might strike up a friendship and later might add each other. But, to be honest, there is a very small chance this would work. But I can't think of any other way that might work. Besides, facebook crushes are shallow (you know nothing much about her except what she looks like) and therefore your interest in her is shallow. So since there is no deeper reason for your interest in her, I don't think there's much to strive for here.

Well said.

People still poke each other?

Send her this message: asc walal how r u. manshalah i lik ur pic. i want 2 tlk 2 u ok? abdirashid.guleed721763@hotmail.com ilaa soo xiriir fadlan.

Cushetic taking every topic seriously

Perfect_Order wrote:Cushetic taking every topic seriously

Loool she's navie girl

SecretAgent wrote:

Perfect_Order wrote:Cushetic taking every topic seriously

Loool she's navie girl

Maxaa idinka galay?


I personally like her!!!

Lillaahiya wrote:Send her this message: asc walal how r u. manshalah i lik ur pic. i want 2 tlk 2 u ok? abdirashid.guleed721763@hotmail.com ilaa soo xiriir fadlan.

if you're being sarcastic then alright but if your not; say alhamdulilah your not a dude, terrible way to approach a female, just terrible mate.

as for the gentleman who wants the advice;
step-1 don't approach her at all on face book but join a group she is in and know more about her from a distance
step-2 befriend someone she knows or close in that group, before anything find out if she is committed if your lucky she wont be
step-3 (only if your real keen) beg them for your life in a way that is measured and has integrity and ask them if they can get you in touch with her outside of the internet
step-4 good luck

Yeah I was just messing around

Lol @ all the stalker tips.

It ain't worth it.

ms.naliaa wrote:You are officially a stalker if you have been looking at her FB for a few weeks dude.

Do you still Canada?