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To the married folks, what age did you expect yourselves to be married and to the folks who had been expecting to married at a certain age, where did it go wrong?

I'm approaching that time of life and I could learn from others mistakes or successes

My mistake was that I married a circumcised girl. She didn't enjoy it when I went down on her.

Slow down there AbukarSuber you are only 18 , you have got much to see in life .I will give you a friendly advice , Don't marry until you are 30 or above .

I plan to get married at age 40. The average life expectancy is over 80 and continues to rise. I need financial stability. I need to be in the middle of my career to even think about marriage. But as soon as I get married, if God wills, I wish to have 5+ kids. They are my 401(k)

@Afro . You know giving your partner a pleasure is as much satisfying as you coming .
Incidentally this is a Marriage related thread and you brought up the Number one Marriage wrecker and thats Dissatisfaction in bed .

To the married folks . guys if you are having troubles and un needed emotional dramas with your Husband/Wife, then all you need to do
is step up in bed enchant your sex life , do different things don't keep it routine , I am sure you devour each other in Night
tomorrow morning you will both wake up smiling to each other all your issues solved . I call them Born Again Couples .

@Titanum- I see where you coming from , I myself plan to marry at age 35 I guess by that time you are fit to handle it . and most importantly
be a responsible father .

Hargaysaay, I just hope I don't get dysfunction during those years. I hear the majority of men experiences it.

Titanium wrote:Hargaysaay, I just hope I don't get dysfunction during those years. I hear the majority of men experiences it.

well stay fit , eat and sleep healthier , I am sure any man could be a Tiger in bed at that Age . all you Need to do is lead active drug free life .

Titanium, my father got married at that age. You'll end up paying the price on the mental department of things rather than the down below. By the time your kids are 20, you'll be 60 and they'll play with your hard earned cash. Both my older brothers are married and guess who paid for both weddings?

Hargaysaay,

I think it involves genetics bro but all we can say is inshallah it wont happen

Hydrogen,

By the time I hit 60, I will be writing out my account number to my kids for them to deposit money for me. I will be strict.

hargaysaay wrote:Don't marry until you are 30 or above .

Titanium wrote:I plan to get married at age 40.

My young brother Abuukar, sxb dadkaan yaysan ku waalin, guurka waa sunno. Hadaa faqiirnimo ka baqaysid remember Ilaah ayaa dadka irsaaqa no one else! Best is to consult with the family and if they are willing to support you then that's brill. People wanna get married when they "settle down" but they miss out on the experience of going through those stages of life with a spouse. It will keep you close together and a more genuine love life can easily bore from that. Laakin adigoo noloshada kaa dhamaatay oo daalka iyo streeska meel hoose kaasoo galeen maxaa loo buseeshaa?

I sometimes visit my married friends who are as young as 19 sxb they have it going really well for them. Aniga personally i'm hoping to get engaged soon inshallah walaxoo yaryar aan u baahanahay inaa finalise gareeyo. Gotta take a sabbatical from Snet, when i come back i shall be married inshallah.

abakar20 wrote:when i come back i shall be married inshallah.

Which brand of champagne will be pouring?

Don't worry even if it Happens by that Time they gonna medically invent a pill that when you take it you tear Your partner to pieces . the world is just getting nastier .

Titanum why would you wanna be a selfish Dad , com on give the boys something they're just 20 .

My parents stopped supporting me when I was 16. I think I am being very generous by cutting off the money tap at age 20.

Abakar, as for you, there is a cure for underage marriage nowadays. It ends with hub.

hydrogen wrote:

abakar20 wrote:when i come back i shall be married inshallah.

Which brand of champagne will be pouring?

abakar20 wrote:

hydrogen wrote:

abakar20 wrote:when i come back i shall be married inshallah.

Which brand of champagne will be pouring?