Thinking like a man?

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 4:38 pm

Something I've been thinking about for a while now and something in CR's thread reminded me.

When someone tells you about their problem do you automatically start thinking about a solution for it or do you just listen? Apparently it's a man thing to try and look for solutions. But why? Why wouldn't you think of a solution if you have a problem regardless of gender?

Ladies don't you find it insulting that we're just supposed to wallow in our problems? But then again I think this has made me slightly insensitive because it annoys me when someone is then wallowing because the solution is right there.

Soomaaliyaa · Post by **Soomaaliyaa** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 4:56 pm

Insomniac · Post by **Insomniac** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 4:59 pm

GeesiyadiiSoomaaliya wrote:

Take care of your kids, you stupid bitch.

ZubeirAwal · Post by **ZubeirAwal** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:06 pm

Just don't be a flirt and you won't get raped.

#ThaProblemSolva

Insomniac · Post by **Insomniac** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:09 pm

ZubeirAwal wrote:Just don't be a flirt and you won't get raped.

#ThaProblemSolva

You what?

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:16 pm

GeesiyadiiSoomaaliya wrote:

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:16 pm

ZubeirAwal wrote:Just don't be a flirt and you won't get raped.

#ThaProblemSolva

Wrong thread mate

Post by **FAH1223** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:18 pm

You telling us you're a Tom Boy?

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:20 pm

FAH1223 wrote:You telling us you're a Tom Boy?

No. This is the problem why does it have to make someone masculine? it is insulting to females that this is apparently a masculine trait

Insomniac · Post by **Insomniac** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:22 pm

Men fix stuff, women make food.

ms.naliaa · Post by **ms.naliaa** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:23 pm

Women talk their problems out. Thats why we tell eachother the most mundand of things "shiit my split end are back....I have nothing to wear" etc etc

Men are fixers, they dont want to listen to a problem that they either 1. cant fix 2.dont need to fix

AgentOfChaos · Post by **AgentOfChaos** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:23 pm

If it's a woman, I just listen and nod my head
If it's a guy I bitch slap him for dumping his First World Problems on me and tell him to man the fuck up and solve the problem himself.

ms.naliaa · Post by **ms.naliaa** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:28 pm

AgentofChaos.....you shouldnt be here.

Jas is under strict orders to maintain her distance from you otherwise she will get the wrath of ilall

BlackVelvet · Post by **BlackVelvet** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:28 pm

ms.naliaa wrote:
Women talk their problems out. Thats why we tell eachother the most mundand of things "shiit my split end are back....I have nothing to wear" etc etc

Men are fixers, they dont want to listen to a problem that they either 1. cant fix 2.dont need to fix

See that's what I mean nowadays I noticed if my friend says hey I have split ends again I'd be like why don't you go to the hairdressers or ask her to join me if I was planning on going. If it's the clothes I'd make a suggestion etc

I noticed it with big life problems particularly I can't just sit there and nod but that's normal right?

Tuushi · Post by **Tuushi** » Wed Aug 21, 2013 5:29 pm

I am a problem solver and i have been asked not to offer a feedback on different issues by my female friends.

It is automatic rsponse for me.

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