train them young

[LobsterUnit]

Our children need to be conditioned and disciplined into having rigid , clearly defined rights and responsibilities from a young age.Some somalis spoil and treat their offspring like little babies. Boys are told to stay out of the kitchen , thereby creating a culture of dependancy when it comes to cooking, cleaning and budgeting. I have seen somalian teenagers being lavished with 70pound trainers when they are failing their education and joining gangs. Beating and bribing worked in africa, but it won't work west. Train them young. Boys should be expected to help with cleaning,tidying their bedroom, sleeping at specific time according to their age. I met a group of Boys who told me they rarely ate rfom home because they thought somali food was shite. When i asked them who gave them money to eat junk food,it was their mothers. Good way to raise gang leaders.


gfic time according to their age.

[Lillaahiya]

[Hyperactive]

believe me there will be some that cannot be trained. life will teach them later.

i never needed to go close to kitchen and my food always on the table when come down stairs, any given time. but life taught me that people do not clean the way i want and better off to supervisor who making my food and sanitize their hand and what they use to cook my food, or just live with borash.lol

[Lillaahiya]

^ You have issues

[Hyperactive]

lilahiya, sister, wallah i hate complicating things, a a inan dadka dibo ( my maids) but life isnt piece of cake when you have OCD. with time you adopt with it a d figured just, eat boorish. and again i think of the process of boorish, packaging etc. they are human, machines that i dont know if was. clean! damn, yakhi, wad iso hasosisay what im trying to forgot or ignore!

sorry thread started. but that was example you cannot train every one, let them make mistakes and they will learn.

[Lillaahiya]

Have you ever thought about getting professional help? Waxaan caadi mahaa

[CushiticReflections]

You're right, BaastoUnit, although I don't know if that leads to boys joining gangs.

I make it a point to teach my younger brother how to be independent, so I try to teach him how to cook, do laundry, drive, among other things. I don't want him to be one of those men who cannot live without a woman because they can't clean or cook. -_- It's going well, he's in uni and regularly cleans and knows how to make basic dinner-type food.

[SultanOrder]

Poor hyper, the thought of his maid not doing a proper job of cleaning

[FAH1223]

Have you ever thought about getting professional help? Waxaan caadi mahaa

Better be clean than dirty

[Lillaahiya]

^ Having an OCD isn't healthy

[FAH1223]

^ Having an OCD isn't healthy

Better clean than dirty

[LetsCookBreakfast]

I don't understand why people need maids in the first place. So unnecessary.