question for the ladies

[barakaboy10]

a friend of mine confided with me that his wife is angry with him because of something he said. after several attempts to know what that was it (because i wanted to mediate between them) he finally gave up. he told me that he asked his wife who lives in Kenya what was the right time he should come, meaning that he didn't wanted to get there when she just started her menstrual cycle . he says as soon as he mentioned that she just got so upset that she started yelling at him.! why are you asking me that stupid question! your nuts! you are very stupid! things like that. and he says he thought that was just innocent question and couples can talk about everything between them since they sleep together and nothing was off-limits between them.

so my question to you ladies is that:

what is wrong with that question? is it appropriate to ask? what would you have said if you were asked the same question by your husband?

honest answers welcomed

by the way, the husband was gonna be gone for about three weeks.

as a guy, i don't think something is wrong with it.

[InaSamaale]

She probably perceived it as him wanting to visit for one thing and I can see how she may be hurt by that. Depends how he asked really. Case of poor communication on both sides. I really think your friend had no business in telling you but that is his prerogative.

[OjOO]

If you been married more than six months and you don't know how to delicately decipher your wife then my friend , you're some one who can read human emotion. just like the way we notice when someone is upset. if your are 20 years and above then you need help.

I would not ask even whore that question let alone a women i married to.

All and all your friend deserve all the anger of his wife.

[QaaliDumar]

It certainly is an inappropriate question to ask your wife. Asking a girlfriend that same question is a different story. But your wife?

What if she's in her mentrual cycle, what difference does it make? It doesn't mean there aren't other ways for a couple to be intimate together. Him being there is what matters.

[Xaawoley]

I don't see it as inappropriate, he's seen her iyado mudh iyo gacan ah before so why is it such a big deal to ask such a question?

Meesha ma diyaarad bu bariis u soo raacay.

[greenday]

If it came up iyagoo kaftamayo moogi, otherwise wa an idiot, she should send him back without shidh

[ZubeirAwal]

She probably perceived it as him wanting to visit for one thing and I can see how she may be hurt by that. Depends how he asked really. Case of poor communication on both sides. I really think your friend had no business in telling you but that is his prerogative.

This.

He should visit her regardless if she's on the cycle or not. She's your wife not a prostitute.

[wiyeer]

Its all about what context the question came up and the wording he used to ask. If he was married 6 months to a year, he should have developed good communication skills with his wife which would allow him to ask, inquire and talk to her on a level about anything. He should live with his wife and get to know her better, there's no two ways about it.

[Xaawoley]

Uz lot are over dramatic wallah.

They've shared intimate moments together yet he can't ask his wife such a simple question, if she was some side chick yes let her get offended laakin this is his WIFE, he has rights upon her and vise versa.

Somalidu wax walba wax wayn umbay ka dhigan.

He asked her if she was on her period, not if she would have a threesome with him and his friend.

Good luck to uz lot when you get married, I don't know what kinda minor shid u would be arguing about

[Reacher]

It is actually important to know if your woman is on her period for a lot of reasons.

A- If she is the type who gets dramatic in her menstrual periods, then you are prepared to deal with that and understand what is causing her to act unusually herself.
B- If she is overseas for example, and you need to spend some quality time with her, it is even more reasonable to ask her if she is on her period or when she thinks she will get one.
D- To make her menstrual experience better if she is the kind that gets sick because of it.


Waa caadi in la is waraysto.







Hello Qaali:



If I was married to you, waan ku waydiin lahaa su''ashaas. Ma dharkaadaaad ka badan lahayd? Sheeko.

[BigRedBook]

Your friend is an asshole. Not did he offend his wife, but he went ahead and shared it with you (and God knows who else). Not a good person.

[QaaliDumar]

It is actually important to know if your woman is on her period for a lot of reasons.

A- If she is the type who gets dramatic in her menstrual periods, then you are prepared to deal with that and understand what is causing her to act unusually herself.
B- If she is overseas for example, and you need to spend some quality time with her, it is even more reasonable to ask her if she is on her period or when she thinks she will get one.
D- To make her menstrual experience better if she is the kind that gets sick because of it.


Waa caadi in la is waraysto.







Hello Qaali:



If I was married to you, waan ku waydiin lahaa su''ashaas. Ma dharkaadaaad ka badan lahayd? Sheeko.

Waxaas oo dhan ha jiraan. Waxkastaana waan aaminsanahay in la isweeydiin karo laakin nin aad imaanshihiisa sugaysay inuu waxaas ku su'aalo aan isku soo beegee weeyaan. Walle albaabkaan ka xiranlahaa.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

How long bay is qabeen...sounds like the idiot xaakisa si fican uma yaqaan

[Reacher]

Waxaas oo dhan ha jiraan. Waxkastaana waan aaminsanahay in la isweeydiin karo laakin nin aad imaanshihiisa sugaysay inuu waxaas ku su'aalo aan isku soo beegee weeyaan. Walle albaabkaan ka xiranlahaa.

In other words, you are saying be smart and your door will stay open? Waan fahmay. The timing of his question may have been off and it seemed all he cared about was the opportunity for raaxo, but, a husband and a wife should be no strangers to each other when it came to personal questions.

PS: Qosolaan la dhacay markana aqriyay "albaabkaan ka xiran lahaa". Adiga sweet aa tahay, you like to play hardball. And cute.


Haye, blush and don't write back.

[BlackVelvet]

I don't know what's more cringe worthy, the fact that he asked, the fact that he told you, the fact that you're now telling a bunch of random people.

I hope this is just creative story telling