Getting to know someone - can you take your time?

[BlackVelvet]

Is it something you do? Does it make sense to you or is the normal thing to go in with an agenda or tick list and then if they pass move forward/get married because "you can never know someone unless you live with them"?

[AgentOfChaos]

You don't need to visit sewers to know it smells like shit tho.

[BlackVelvet]

Yes assuming you're not attracted to scum. But the question is regarding regular non-shitty people.

[AgentOfChaos]

But what if nothing about that person inspires you to get to know them?

[BlackVelvet]

Then they wouldn't count as someone you want to get to know would they? Stop trying to troll me and just answer the question bac bac yahoo

[AgentOfChaos]

Why the name calling tho?

[BlackVelvet]

It's af Wuqoyi I thought it might a term of endearment/encouragement, is it not

[AgentOfChaos]

First of all it's "waqooyi" and second of all what you said roughly translates to "do you want cambuulo?" and which I say "no thanks."

[BlackVelvet]

If that's what it translates to then I take it back, I don't share my cambuulo.

[AgentOfChaos]

I didn't want your stinking cambuulo in the first place.

[Marques]

Where's Lilaahiya

[BlackVelvet]

Rab ama ha rabin, you're never getting it from me.


Now if you are done trying, and failing, to troll it's back to the topic at hand.

[AgentOfChaos]

Jas: I don't have to try, I already won when you resorted to name calling. If you're mad, you lose, that's the name of the game.


Agreed, let's get back to the topic. But what was the topic about? Oh wait I remember, the cadaan security guard.

[BuuloXubeey]

Yes like u said u can never know a person until u live with them. Getting to know them before marriage is like a puzzle. The best thing to do is find out about him through his close friends, family and teachers. See what of people he hangs out with, see how a treat his mother and see how he acts socially. Other than that don't be harsh on the guy if u cannot find any faults. Enough with the doubts and marry him! Goodluck

[BlackVelvet]

I don't call people names when I'm mad so your theory is flawed so I didn't lose and in fact I believe I won, again. I think I'm better at this than you.


It's over with the white security guard. He killed it when he kept talking.



You know the girl you fell for, how long did you know her prior?

Yes like u said u can never know a person until u live with them. Getting to know them before marriage is like a puzzle. The best thing to do is find out about him through his close friends, family and teachers. See what of people he hangs out with, see how a treat his mother and see how he acts socially. Other than that don't be harsh on the guy if u cannot find any faults. Enough with the doubts and marry him! Goodluck

So you are team check list? Do you introduce the girl you're seeing to your friends?