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I would like to know how is the feelings between the somali half siblings from the father side?

Is it different feeling than the full siblings?

I have...never met them in my life.

The dynamics with my step siblings in the states is not so much of a difference except for the ones in beledweyne that I have never met.

I have one 17 years old Half Sibling From My Father's side. I spent $1500 of dayn Money to bring him to Kenya to go to school but he stupidly dropped out and is now a focking Punk. That is how close I have ever been to half siblings and they fu*cked me up. I won't associate with them again.

So if you aint from the Same belly with him, he aint that important. They can kizz rocks.

I have grown up with all my half siblings. Our bond is unbreakable alhamdulillah. I guess the difference comes when you don't grow up with them. Whether we share a mother or not, I love all of my siblings equally.

i love my siblings from other mother, just as same the one i share both parents. also my cousins are same as siblings to me. maybe cause we born and bred in qurba with no other relatives around. we all just big siblings. mashallah we are huge family between my father's and my uncles.

hyperactive wrote:i love my siblings from other mother, just as same the one i share both parents. also my cousins are same as siblings to me. maybe cause we born and bred in qurba with no other relatives around. we all just big siblings. mashallah we are huge family between my father's and my uncles.

Arabs are like the whites, they say al akh gair al shaqiq!

I think in somali culture mother doesn't make different.

I have nothing but half siblings, but since I'm youngest by six years to nearest of age and 14 years from the oldest on my mother's side and only a year or two difference on my father's side, I am closer to my father's siblings. Good thing is we all live in the same city and that is why I'm close to any of my siblings.

Perfect_Order wrote:I have nothing but half siblings, but since I'm youngest by six years to nearest of age and 14 years from the oldest on my mother's side and only a year or two difference on my father's side, I am closer to my father's siblings. Good thing is we all live in the same city and that is why I'm close to any of my siblings.

I think its natural that you feel more closer to your half siblings from your fathers side bc your all an extansion of his name

Guys like you the call them madi/maqtouc min shajara, girls like them....maybe there is a big reason.

No I'm sure it's the age, ones who over 10 years older than you compared to one's who are the same age, doesn't matter which parent you share it's the same.

Perfect_Order wrote:No I'm sure it's the age, ones who over 10 years older than you compared to one's who are the same age, doesn't matter which parent you share it's the same.

I see, age=Personality but what about when you get older? There are things that will be more connecting you with eachother like the family heritage

Royal families are based on the fathers side

I guess may be because you have no full brothers and sisters they are all same to you.

Wife will take advantage of this to influence on you.

sahal80 wrote:

hyperactive wrote:i love my siblings from other mother, just as same the one i share both parents. also my cousins are same as siblings to me. maybe cause we born and bred in qurba with no other relatives around. we all just big siblings. mashallah we are huge family between my father's and my uncles.

Arabs are like the whites, they say al akh gair al shaqiq!

I think in somali culture mother doesn't make different.

lol no one says that any more.. either akhoy men abooy or men ommi for half siblings or just akhooy.

perfect, so you are only kid for your mom?

leave alone my siblings from other monther, even my cousins we are just like siblings. maybe cause we just eliminate the father name and use our last name. people cannot tell if we are siblings or cousins.

Minneapolis Mayor wrote:I have one 17 years old Half Sibling From My Father's side. I spent $1500 of dayn Money to bring him to Kenya to go to school but he stupidly dropped out and is now a focking Punk. That is how close I have ever been to half siblings and they fu*cked me up. I won't associate with them again.

So if you aint from the Same belly with him, he aint that important. They can kizz rocks.

you gotta be patient!! most 17yr olds are like that, its just a phase, i know you are getting tired of it, but if his mum isn't alive don't leave him to fend for himself.

i dont have a problem with half siblings, i treat them the same as the ones whom we share the same mum. Having said that dont start with me the subject of step mothers.

We don't have the bad culture that calls their brothers and sisters...half-brother/half-sister...Unless moms are evil and don't create fitnah between siblings...Brothers love their brothers..same are sisters too..No matter they share Father or father and mother..