Rejection

[SelfD]

When it comes to being rejected, I was told men handle it better.
They shrug it off and keeping chasing skirts. Lakin, when women get rejected...they sulk.
Why do u think men handle it better?

[SultanOrder]

It's not so much a male v female thing. Any time you do fail at something every once in awhile you sulk compared to failing all the time. Truth is men opened themselves to rejection so much more than women, therefore they've developed tougher skin. I guarantee you if you let your self get rejected everyday it won't phase you.

So, if you don't want it to bother you, I recommend you let yourself get rejected twicea day for the first week, once a day for two weeks, and then once a week after that and I guarantee you won't think twice before moving on.

[Murax]

For Men its a game. You win some, lose some

[SelfD]

So what are u saying?...i should go out there hiding on guys just for the rejection? This would be an actual cool experiment.
But what if, instead I end up picking up guys?...should i let them down right after..telling them about the experiment?

Or is there another way to get this done?

I have to say this also conflicts with my wanting to lower my gaze.

[Murax]

SelfD,

Can You want multiple guys at the same time? Cuz guys can and actually do most of the time. Which answers Your question

[SelfD]

Want? yes...but emotionally attach? slightly more difficult.
I think its cuz a lot of girls appeals to most guys but not a lot of guys appeal to most girls.

[Murax]

Want? yes...but emotionally attach? slightly more difficult.

Yea thats the thing though. I don't think most guys get emotionaly attached to Women until they marry them, have kids with them, etc. then that woman becomes a permenant part of His life. I think when guys marry girls, get serious with them its because out of all the ones He wanted He just wanted that particular women more. With Women its more of the 'emotional attachment', 'soulmate' etc. kinda thing. But this is some guys. Now days, there is a new breed of Men out way more in 'touch' with their feelings than women lol

[SelfD]

So what advice would u give to women?...dont get emotionally attach til they lock it down?

[MrPrestige]

This should answer your question.

[Murax]

?...dont get emotionally attach til they lock it down?

Absolutely thats what I'm saying, but I shouldn't even be saying this

[GeoSeven]

So, if you don't want it to bother you, I recommend you let yourself get rejected twicea day for the first week, once a day for two weeks, and then once a week after that and I guarantee you won't think twice before moving on.

You are talking to a female with a totality of mind completely different to yours. You probably just prescribed her a female routine into gradual depression.



OP, ever heard of the saying; "Plenty of fish in the ocean"? Well, it's literally what most males think as soon as they are rejected and that idiom or any other line of thought similar to it which conveys that message is all the consolation they require in order to suppress the almost non existent emotional dismay they may have possibly encountered in the process of rejection. Then they move on...as if it's never happened.

Disclaimer: That descriptions pertains to emotionally stable males. One might expect to encounter strange ones who's acts are not necessarily in accordance with the laws of nature.

[SultanOrder]

Hmm, guys would probably say yes, so they are not a good way to help you. I then recommend girls, that way you are most likely going to get rejected and you won't have to lower your gaze

[SelfD]

Hmm, guys would probably say yes, so they are not a good way to help you. I then recommend girls, that way you are most likely going to get rejected and you won't have to lower your gaze

I aint no lesbo sxb...maybe my target should be gay guys?

[SultanOrder]

I'm starting to think you don't have it in you to get over rejection.

[SelfD]

I'm starting to think you don't have it in you to get over rejection.

Cuz i dont want to hid on other girls?...
I think one gay guy still tryna pass off as straight will do that trick
On the other hand, how bout I flirt with you?