I have a big Question for you guys

[Minneapolis Mayor]

Why is our Haybsooc or Not Marrying from Madhibaan not diminishing. In India, Its diminishing in the big Cities like 80% acceptance rate. Why is ours not diminishing even though generations are trading off places. For example, today's 40s are having their daughters at marrigeable age and they still moving too slow to accepting their Daughter to married off to Madhibaan.

What can help diminish this practice faster?

please Answer why we are stuck with it and what we can do to extinct it.

thanks,

[SultanOrder]

This is an issue that really shocks me, to the degree Madhibaans are still discriminated against, and for what I don't understand.

[Fall]

Lol @ really shocks me. Clanism is institutionalized what's so shocking about it. Marrying your daughter off to a Madhiban guy means your grandchild can never be anything beyond a 0.5 in Somalia. If anyone could be a President in Somalia and anyone could do whatever they wanted regardless of clan then letting your daughter marry a Madhiban guy wouldn't be an issue in any way, this has nothing to do with being low caste or nobility. When everyone has equal opportunities in education, employment, politics then will it not matter.

Sorry PO, you just have to look at your location "October Waa Tee Waa Tumaa! Waa Tayadi!" so save us the crocodile tears.

[SultanOrder]

Hydrogen, what about your son marrying a madhibaan is considered just as bad.

[Fall]

That only just evidences Somali people's cognitive dissonance, if you create a patriarchal society/culture where the child inherits the father's lineage regardless of what his mother is then why should there be anything wrong with a Madhiban lady.

[SultanOrder]

But there is and no qabil in Somalia is discriminated so universally against.

[skywalker25]

PO we Somalilanders and not just Isaaq's but all northerners above las anode have to accept you southerners with your dodgy features and questionable Somali extraction. Please don't expect us to even consider the thought of even considering Midgaan's as partners. Thats totally out of the question..

[BlackVelvet]

questionable Somali extraction

Glass houses

[skywalker25]

questionable Somali extraction

Glass houses

We have been down this path and that includes the donkey doctor and his mugshot collections. And the conclusion was that the majerteens (raped or were raped) mixed with their slaves. Whilst those down south couldn't help themselves and ended up having a taste of the bantu in those lush plantations..

Besides, the Habashi thing is banter. You are aware I hope?

[SultanOrder]

PO we Somalilanders and not just Isaaq's but all northerners above las anode have to accept you southerners with your dodgy features and questionable Somali extraction. Please don't expect us to even consider the thought of even considering Midgaan's as partners. Thats totally out of the question..

Yet they are a major part of your Somaliland, and will always be a major part, while us "southerners" aren't intertwined with you to the same degree. You already are partners, when will you recognize it?

[BlackVelvet]

Skywalker since I educated myself on the long standing history of Hawiye in the region as an identifiable and serparate entity from all others. As a people who have been living in the horn for thousands of years possibly during the time of the ancient egyptians. I am quite confident in my Somalinimo.


So my adopted Somali walaal, let tell you this daaa daa da da dum, can't touch this

[Meyle]

Gabooye are lovely people. Waa dad naxariis iyo samir badan.

[Cherine]

Forget not marrying Madhiban, now Mareexan and Isaaq can not marry, Habargidir and Majeerteen....etc etc.

[quark]

Very shameful, I am still shocked at the reasoning behind it

[SecretAgent]

Gabooye are lovely people. Waa dad naxariis iyo samir badan.

Dats y issa musa killed 6 gabooye n burn down 4-5 gabooye homes issaqs r really fuked up ppl wallahi