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I'm thinking of adopting

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I am thinking of adopting 5 non Somali children. Of those, two that are Asian. There's a high possibility if I had Somali children, they won't become doctors or upper middle class/rich and I need financial security during retirement. I am afraid they might end up being brainwashed by religious extremists and have no ambitions or a hip hop son who only has hoop dreams but realizes he can't achieve it once he reaches 30 and as a result ends up working at a 7/11. Having Somali children carries a huge risk.

In the jurisdiction I live, the govt gives adoptive parents $1000 a month per child as long as you're making $80K or less a year. So adopting Chinese kids and other kids will not only give me some security at retirement but also when they live with me. In case anything happens, me and my children are stable. If I were to unfortunately lose my job, I will not be in ruin.

With this decision, I've decided not to marry. I would end up being possibly married to a crazy Somali woman who divorces me and demands half my pay check in child support. The risk is there as I've seen many divorced Somalis. I cant risk my 1 life on Earth being miserable because of a crazy Somali woman

But deep down, I'm mostly interested in adopting though because I feel for them. I don't believe in making babies when there are kids out there without a home. It breaks my heart seeing children not being cared for.

I am,

Abdi "They better call me 'dad' " Johnson
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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Why don't you think about writing a novel so you can put all your bullshit into one place?
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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You might need to contact Angelina Jolie. :|
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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DeeqaDagan wrote:You might need to contact Angelina Jolie. :|
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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Another proof that u r gay. Why cant u have your own kids? Is it gayness or AIDS? :dj:
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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In order to raise Chinese children who grow up to become doctors or upper middle class/rich, you need to raise them with Chinese mindset, Chinese work/education ethics, etc. I don't think AbdiJohnson has these qualities.
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go for it, you may be better person by doing good for others.

i thought about it but just financial adoption, send them money to go school and living expenses back home. $1000 a month you can adopt like 5 families. my self i like adopting kids with no fathers, just kids with their mothers. single mother families.
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Why dont you earn and save your own retirement? Selfish and shameless!
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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hyperactive wrote:my self i like adopting kids with no fathers, just kids with their mothers. single mother families.
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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hydrogen, what is so funny?

eyaal sooqad.lol
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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hyperactive wrote:go for it, you may be better person by doing good for others.

i thought about it but just financial adoption, send them money to go school and living expenses back home. $1000 a month you can adopt like 5 families. my self i like adopting kids with no fathers, just kids with their mothers. single mother families.

Masha allah hyper
U have not adopted them;u r sponsoring them just financially right.?
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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yes that what i meant. just suporting them financial. i cannot be a father, ive a lot to work on myself.
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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wow good luck. social services would visit them till they're over age to see their progress.
I wouldnt want the state to intrude my life, constantly, especially when you want to go of on holiday.
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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I would say that western women irregardless of their race are prone to running away with your money and children, white and african american women being amongst the worst offenders.
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Re: I'm thinking of adopting

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hydrogen wrote:
hyperactive wrote:my self i like adopting kids with no fathers, just kids with their mothers. single mother families.
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
:lol: Reminds me of Mr Omar from Everybody hates Chris when the dude is always going after the widows.
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