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This is why women should never ask men to work in the house

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...because it would make them sissies who can't fock and I am sure that is not what women want.



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A study called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” which appeared in The American Sociological Review last year, surprised many, precisely because it went against the logical assumption that as marriages improve by becoming more equal, the sex in these marriages will improve, too. Instead, it found that when men did certain kinds of chores around the house, couples had less sex. Specifically, if men did all of what the researchers characterized as feminine chores like folding laundry, cooking or vacuuming — the kinds of things many women say they want their husbands to do — then couples had sex 1.5 fewer times per month than those with husbands who did what were considered masculine chores, like taking out the trash or fixing the car. It wasn’t just the frequency that was affected, either — at least for the wives. The more traditional the division of labor, meaning the greater the husband’s share of masculine chores compared with feminine ones, the greater his wife’s reported sexual satisfaction.

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Re: This is why women should never ask men to work in the ho

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You're the type of person when shown a study that isn't in congruence with your belief system that would protest and say everyone is going to hell. Do us all a favour and leave the selective study using, patriarchy is a real thing and whatever enhances your hegemony is allowed and not contested. I find it funny because if the study said "this is why women should never work inside the house" you would utilise quotes from the Quran to crush what you see as someone challenging patriarchy. I guess quotes from the Quran which suggest that men should work inside the house and help their wives is not the part you read often.
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Jam Street wrote:...because it would make them sissies who can't fock and I am sure that is not what women want.
Paranoid much.
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What you laughing @ Cherine?

You win some, you lose some. Now, if women want us to help in the kitchen they better know they won't have a man that gets her respect because even if putting him in the kitchen doesn't make her lose the respect she had for him, she will sure lose the respect for him when he can't please her.

Make up your mind and let us know if vacuuming the house is more important than the pleasure in the bedroom.
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So if the guy doesnt do any house chores and yet sucks in bed, what is his excuse marka? :?

This reaserch waxba kama jiraan, mid banaanka loo so tuuray ba waxan iska aliftay :down:
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There was another study,by my own researchers.Women who do less chores are sexier.
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Jam Street wrote:...because it would make them sissies who can't fock and I am sure that is not what women want.
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A study called “Egalitarianism, Housework and Sexual Frequency in Marriage,” which appeared in The American Sociological Review last year, surprised many, precisely because it went against the logical assumption that as marriages improve by becoming more equal, the sex in these marriages will improve, too. Instead, it found that when men did certain kinds of chores around the house, couples had less sex. Specifically, if men did all of what the researchers characterized as feminine chores like folding laundry, cooking or vacuuming — the kinds of things many women say they want their husbands to do — then couples had sex 1.5 fewer times per month than those with husbands who did what were considered masculine chores, like taking out the trash or fixing the car. It wasn’t just the frequency that was affected, either — at least for the wives. The more traditional the division of labor, meaning the greater the husband’s share of masculine chores compared with feminine ones, the greater his wife’s reported sexual satisfaction.
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And the award for the shittiest excuse for not doing the chores goes to......
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Tuushi wrote:There was another study,by my own researchers.Women who do less chores are sexier.
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I don't have any problem with doing household chores. Obviously you should be careful not to make your wife feel like a servant or waitress.
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Tuushi wrote:There was another study,by my own researchers.Women who do less chores are sexier.
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Cherine wrote:I don't have any problem with doing household chores. Obviously you should be careful not to make your wife feel like a servant or waitress.
And I don't have a problem fixing things and doing things like the mechanic, I'm much better at that than cleaning.
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What a self-respecting man would do in the kitchen is behind me. If she's sick to cook, buy food or let your sister or mom come and cook. Men should be tackling more challenging duties, like fixing cars, electronics, doing grocery and it goes without saying his bedroom duties
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