R.T: When is it okay to meet his/her family?

[BlackVelvet]

Not necessarily aabo iyo hooyo. Can you meet someone's family before you are absolutely certain that you want to marry them? They/You have asked and you/they have said yes?


It would be awkward as hell no? Or is it that you feel/are a dirty little secret if you're kept away?

[Lillaahiya]

I would meet his sis/bro/cousin only if he already told his parents about me and they're preparing the doonis. I'm not about meeting fam or him meeting my fam unless it's common knowledge we're in the process of getting married.

[Jam Street]

If he wants you he will let you meet his family otherwise he won't.

[Murax]

Gosh You Women love the prospect of meeting a guys family, while men dread it

[BlackVelvet]

If he wants you he will let you meet his family otherwise he won't.

Makes sense. Lakin it's awkward as hell if it's too early on

if he already told his parents about me and they're preparing the doonis.

What if he's already told them and he's dead serious but you're iffy. Would you meet the family to help you decide or stay away until you're sure.

Gosh You Women love the prospect of meeting a guys family, while men dread it

Not always the case

[Skippa]

What if he's already told them and he's dead serious but you're iffy

What kind of duli does that isagoon wax iska hubsan? And what is it with women and dithering/prevarication? That’s the last thing to be iffy about…

[jamal9]

[Lillaahiya]

What if he's already told them and he's dead serious but you're iffy

What kind of duli does that isagoon wax iska hubsan?

Afka caano lagu qabay. If I'm iffy about him, why would I agree to marry him? Why would I wanna meet his fam in this case?

[BlackVelvet]

What if he's already told them and he's dead serious but you're iffy

What kind of duli does that isagoon wax iska hubsan? And what is it with women and dithering/prevarication? That’s the last thing to be iffy about…

Getting ahead of himself? Madly in love? Optimistic?


And what do you mean it's the last thing to be iffy about? It's the biggest thing to be iffy about. The only other bigger decision a woman ever has to make is whether and when to have kids.

Afka caano lagu qabay. If I'm iffy about him, why would I agree to marry him?

re-read the post (mine and Skippa's)

[SelfD]

Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.

[BlackVelvet]

Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.

It's hypothetical nooh


When did you meet/would you meet his family?

[SelfD]

Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.

It's hypothetical nooh


When did you meet/would you meet his family?

When we made our plans of getting married known to the families and so doonis is complete.

[Shirib]

When i've decided that this is the girl that i want to marry

[BlackVelvet]

When i've decided that this is the girl that i want to marry

Even if she hasn't agreed?

Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.

It's hypothetical nooh


When did you meet/would you meet his family?

When we made our plans of getting married known to the families and so doonis is complete.

Makes sense.

[Shirib]

When i've decided that this is the girl that i want to marry

Even if she hasn't agreed?

Parents when we're both agree we want to get married.

Siblings, when i think she's the one.