Would you ever marry someone significantly older than you?

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

This guy's wife is 23 years his senior. I can't imagine marrying a woman older than me unless she's loaded and/or absolutely stunning.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/ar ... miere.html

[YummyMummy]

^

So you approve of the cougar woman concept within those conditions? Euuurgh!

[Warabaha]

Cougars only for fun and messing around, not marrying.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Cougars only for fun and messing around, not marrying.

Exactly.

[YummyMummy]

Horta can someone tell me why it's ok for men to "have fun and mess around", with cougar or cougar la'aan, and not for women? I'm not saying that's the view you guys ascribe to but I want to understand the position that Somali men stand on this viewpoint.

[theyuusuf143]

many women become even more attractive at their late 30s and early 40s, being young does not always mean nice and fresh attractive. i dont like younger women they do not even smell good as the mature ones, look at those qurbaha teenage and early 20s girls, they use lynix and some other weird smelling spray or perfume. but the mature women use victoria sectet and other "isku soo haad" nice smelling alaab like uunsi etc. walaahi waxa yaa iskala sii joogaad is odhanaysaa kkkkkk.

[theyuusuf143]

Horta can someone tell me why it's ok for men to "have fun and mess around", with cougar or cougar la'aan, and not for women? I'm not saying that's the view you guys ascribe to but I want to understand the position that Somali men stand on this viewpoint.

culture, back home your parents are not killing you if you say i mess around with girl or even if they catch you doing it. but girls recieve maximum pubishment for just hanging out with man, that fear never goes away for ever.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

many women become even more attractive at their late 30s and early 40s, being young does not always mean nice and fresh attractive. i dont like younger women they do not even smell good as the mature ones, look at those qurbaha teenage and early 20s girls, they use lynix and some other weird smelling spray or perfume. but the mature women use victoria sectet and other "isku soo haad" nice smelling alaab like uunsi etc. walaahi waxa yaa iskala sii joogaad is odhanaysaa kkkkkk.

You're going to marry a woman based on what she smells like? Ma bisad ba tahay?

BTW, what kind of a woman wears lynx? Only chavs use deodorant.

[SultanOrder]

[YummyMummy]

^ PO is that for cougar women, double standards or being attracted to nice-smelling people?

I'm usually NOT into white guys, at all, but new guy at work smells....mmmmmmm! Big time fitna? Challenge accepted!

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Horta can someone tell me why it's ok for men to "have fun and mess around", with cougar or cougar la'aan, and not for women? I'm not saying that's the view you guys ascribe to but I want to understand the position that Somali men stand on this viewpoint.

It's OK because ninku waa xayawaan and xayawaans love to ****. Naagtu, she's a pure creature, or at least meant to be, so society expects them to be chaste. Also, it's much easier to spot a female hoe than a male one. Myself, I'm not a Lothario, so I at least expect the woman I marry not to be a hoe as well.

[theyuusuf143]

many women become even more attractive at their late 30s and early 40s, being young does not always mean nice and fresh attractive. i dont like younger women they do not even smell good as the mature ones, look at those qurbaha teenage and early 20s girls, they use lynix and some other weird smelling spray or perfume. but the mature women use victoria sectet and other "isku soo haad" nice smelling alaab like uunsi etc. walaahi waxa yaa iskala sii joogaad is odhanaysaa kkkkkk.

You're going to marry a woman based on what she smells like? Ma bisad ba tahay?

BTW, what kind of a woman wears lynx? Only chavs use deodorant.

mature women knows whats best, young ones does not give a shit, i never heard of this chav term but if it means young and poor, i think thats what most somalis are.

[Methylamine]

I don't see why marrying someone older is a problem. The Prophet (SAW) had a happy marriage with Khadijah (RA)

[YummyMummy]

Horta can someone tell me why it's ok for men to "have fun and mess around", with cougar or cougar la'aan, and not for women? I'm not saying that's the view you guys ascribe to but I want to understand the position that Somali men stand on this viewpoint.

It's OK because ninku waa xayawaan and xayawaans love to ****. Naagtu, she's a pure creature, or at least meant to be, so society expects them to be chaste. Also, it's much easier to spot a female hoe than a male one. Myself, I'm not a Lothario, so I at least expect the woman I marry not to be a hoe as well.

I thought you were "taken"?
Anyhow it's good that you can be realistic if crude about your fellow gender like that. Puts things into perspective.

[Marques]

Yummymummy heya