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Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:28 pm
by eliteSomali
For those of you who find the idea disgusting, would you change your mind if there were incentives offered for marrying your cousin? This is primarily for the guys but the ladies can contribute too. For instance, say you have a rich elderly aunt/uncle who's soon to pass who wants you to marry their daughter to keep the wealth within the family. Would you do it? Before you ask, assume this cousin of yours is a first cousin.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:30 pm
by Kukri
First or second cuz?
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:32 pm
by StormShadow
Cousin from father side is very disgusting and not practiced by Somalis. However, I have seen dozens of guys who married their cousin from mother side.
I detest any cousin focking so no to the paper.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:39 pm
by BlackVelvet
Yuck, no, eww.
You want disabled children? For money? Cudubileyso
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:40 pm
by PrinceDaadi
No I will not. Horta guur qaraabeedka waa kasoo horjeedaa ani due to many reason and I can't marry her because of wealthy.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:40 pm
by eliteSomali
Hilaac21 wrote:Cousin from father side is very disgusting and not practiced by Somalis. However, I have seen dozens of guys who married their cousin from mother side.
I detest any cousin focking so no to the paper.
Noted. Rich girls are fancied and as such, she'd probably have loads of suitors lining up. Each one of them probably eying for the wealth. If you could've stopped this wouldn't you? Just because you do it doesn't mean you're doing it for your own personal gain. Maybe you'd be doing for her and her siblings if she has any.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:41 pm
by Octavius
Its not good for family relations. Youll have a higher risk of having disabled children.
Pass on her contact details.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:43 pm
by eliteSomali
Jasmine6 wrote:Yuck, no, eww.
You want disabled children? For money? Cudubileyso

I am not married to my cousin nor do I plan to marry a tenth cousin, for that matter.
Guur family iyo ganacsi family waligaa iska ilaali. My philosophy.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:44 pm
by eliteSomali
PrinceDaadi wrote:No I will not. Horta guur qaraabeedka waa kasoo horjeedaa ani due to many reason and I can't marry her because of wealthy.
Waan gartay. yacni cousinkaada inaad habeen bar ula soo baxdo waa ceeb soo ma'aha?

Agreed!
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:45 pm
by SultanOrder
Jasmine6 wrote:Yuck, no, eww.
You want disabled children? For money? Cudubileyso
That is highly exaggerated. You would have to marry close relatives for several generation before things start to go wrong.
Elite, how much we talking here

Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:45 pm
by eliteSomali
Octavius wrote:Its not good for family relations. Youll have a higher risk of having disabled children.
Pass on her contact details.
Agreed. I'll as long as you're willing to travel kismayo and live there for good.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:47 pm
by eliteSomali
Perfect_Order wrote:Jasmine6 wrote:Yuck, no, eww.
You want disabled children? For money? Cudubileyso
That is highly exaggerated. You would have to marry close relatives for several generation before things start to go wrong.
Elite, how much we talking here

Let's just say enough to last you and your kids and their kids comfortably. This is assuming you're not robbed. After all, it's Somalia.
Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:49 pm
by Octavius
eliteSomali wrote:Octavius wrote:Its not good for family relations. Youll have a higher risk of having disabled children.
Pass on her contact details.
Agreed. I'll as long as you're willing to travel kismayo and live there for good.
No chance.

Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:50 pm
by BlackVelvet
eliteSomali wrote:Jasmine6 wrote:Yuck, no, eww.
You want disabled children? For money? Cudubileyso

I am not married to my cousin nor do I plan to marry a tenth cousin, for that matter.
Guur family iyo ganacsi family waligaa iska ilaali. My philosophy.
This thread, who says only women are gold diggers

Re: Cousin marriages
Posted: Sat Jun 07, 2014 3:52 pm
by PrinceDaadi
eliteSomali wrote:PrinceDaadi wrote:No I will not. Horta guur qaraabeedka waa kasoo horjeedaa ani due to many reason and I can't marry her because of wealthy.
Waan gartay. yacni cousinkaada inaad habeen bar ula soo baxdo waa ceeb soo ma'aha?

Agreed!
Elit taas waaba laga daran yahay, hadii adi iyo gabadhu isfahmi weysaan qaraabada ayaa is qabsanee, tan labaad si bulshadu isu dhaxgasho waxaa la qaatay in banaanka loo kala qaraabto and above hada lacag qof uma guursan karo.
Btw to help her and her siblings they are many other ways to do rather than marrying her.