Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
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Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
I know more Somalis (24-35) who married ajnabis than Somalis. In fact, I dont know of any young Somalis who married within the community in the city. This is especially with the case of Somali guys. Their choices include: Vietnamese, Aboriginal, White. Most of the time they haven't even converted them or taught them Somali culture and whatnot. But their marriages are rock solid
Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?
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Abdi "Is it because Somali girls give headaches?" Johnson
Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?
I am,
Abdi "Is it because Somali girls give headaches?" Johnson
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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Thailand and Laos etc, these girls will devote themselves to you and the family 100% they are so obedient and adorable, the more I flirt and date with girls from South East Asia the more they confirm the positive stereotypes.AbdiJohnson wrote:I know more Somalis (24-35) who married ajnabis than Somalis. In fact, I dont know of any young Somalis who married within the community in the city. This is especially with the case of Somali guys. Their choices include: Vietnamese, Aboriginal, White. Most of the time they haven't even converted them or taught them Somali culture and whatnot. But their marriages are rock solid
Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?
I am,
Abdi "Is it because Somali girls give headaches?" Johnson
Also east asians like Japan and Korea are great, but I just find them more skinny and flat bottom, which is not attractive.
I might marry asian girl in a second life.

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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Dealing with ajnebi chicks for now is fine but I would never marry an ajnebi chick. I would never let a shisheeye carry my children.
In the end, I'm going to aroos a Somali girl.
In the end, I'm going to aroos a Somali girl.
Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Marrying ajnabi has one advantage wich is closing one of the two social doors that you would encounter when you marry a somali
You can save or make more money, have less social/family problems
Most of the other ethnicities unlike of somalis don't involve their lives with the related married couples
I would like to marry a somali female from a respected family(deen or wealth wise) generally or a relative female from families I that I know them
If I have to go for ajnabi it has to be be like sudanese or moritanian female aka afro-arabs.
You can save or make more money, have less social/family problems
Most of the other ethnicities unlike of somalis don't involve their lives with the related married couples
I would like to marry a somali female from a respected family(deen or wealth wise) generally or a relative female from families I that I know them
If I have to go for ajnabi it has to be be like sudanese or moritanian female aka afro-arabs.
Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Non-Somali girls are more tolerable in general, Somali girls in the diaspora are quite annoying nowadays...
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I wonder muxu u jeeda?AbdiJohnson wrote:I know more Somalis (24-35) who married ajnabis than Somalis. In fact, I dont know of any young Somalis who married within the community in the city. This is especially with the case of Somali guys. Their choices include: Vietnamese, Aboriginal, White. Most of the time they haven't even converted them or taught them Somali culture and whatnot. But their marriages are rock solid
Do young Somali guys experience longer and happier marriages when married to foreigners? And why do you think they are not marrying the Somali sisters?
I am,
Abdi "Is it because Somali girls give headaches?" Johnson
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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
WOW!! its the end of the world when men talk like women and vice versa. Get a degree, start a business and build an empire so you can provide
for your family and leave a legacy behind.
Subhanalah!!
for your family and leave a legacy behind.
Subhanalah!!
Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
I think one of the keys to successful marriage (especially in long term) is good communication, culture and religion are big factors. If one spouse is Muslim its more smooth ride because religion is a platform to building a home and family. Culture will always be a barrier, but again if the two are born in the same country they will be able to easier understand one other.
I think both would put greater dedication and effort into marriage if they had different backgrounds; somali couples get divorced for almost nothing these days.
I would say somalis born in the west have a hard time looking for a couple is because a lack of interaction with the other sex; there are no clubs the two can meet each other because somalis frown upon it. In college the religious (or semi religious) somalis make very little attempt to socially find a girl and their is almost a feigned hostility between the two sexes in this group. For women getting married through the mosque is a safety net.
I think both would put greater dedication and effort into marriage if they had different backgrounds; somali couples get divorced for almost nothing these days.
I would say somalis born in the west have a hard time looking for a couple is because a lack of interaction with the other sex; there are no clubs the two can meet each other because somalis frown upon it. In college the religious (or semi religious) somalis make very little attempt to socially find a girl and their is almost a feigned hostility between the two sexes in this group. For women getting married through the mosque is a safety net.
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its a combination of success and integration, the only men who like somali women around here are freshies, we live in the west better sights



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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
You are from Ottawa right? Do you mean to say young Djiboutian when you say young Somalis?
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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Djiboutis have more dhaqan. They marry Somalis more than the Somalia ones. Do you know the Djibouti kids can all speak Somali while the Somalia ones cant? Its something I noticedTurbulence wrote:You are from Ottawa right? Do you mean to say young Djiboutian when you say young Somalis?
But I'm referring to all Somalis
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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Might sound silly but I have a real knack for white girls..I'm not talking about London chavs with their shitty teeth but girls from other regions. I met a beautiful and pretty girl from Southern England, she was so sophisticated, humorous and cordial, best of all never enjoyed a lips so much 
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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
In the last 2-3 years we have had over 2,000 Djiboutians move into the city I live in and from what I have seen you could not be further from the truth. They date and marry anyone who speaks French like the Congolese and Rwandese we have here.
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bouche a bouche waa haram waryaa.Marques wrote: never enjoyed a lips so much
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Re: Young Somalis are not marrying Somali girls: Success?
Lol @ aboriginal. When I was young, we had a Djiboutian neighbour who married an Inuit lady. The irony was that he was the one that was drunk 24/7, while she was normal, so much for stereotypes 

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